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I'm constantly torn...
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There are probably a dozen (out of 40) girls that I've seen in the hobby to whom I would love to make regular return visits. But at the same time there are always other girls who are either new in town, or new to me, or just visiting, and since I can't afford the time or money to see them all I haven't really been able to get back more than once or twice to the ones that I thought knocked it out of the park.

It never occurred to me that any of the would be jealous of me seeing other girls. That's the whole point of the hobby, I thought.

I know most gents have an ATF...heck I've been one on many occasions. My question is, would your ATF get angry if you see and/or post of review of another lady? Had this happen to me recently. WTF?? I NEVER had a problem with a gent asking me for an reference to see another lady or posting a review for her. I don't own ANY of my clients.  

I sure miss the good ole days  :)

because she lives 4 hours away AND when she works she is all over.  She knows that if she lived closer that I would probably go broke and I've already told her that I am the President of her Staker's Club.

lol

Posted By: ladyrose317537
I know most gents have an ATF...heck I've been one on many occasions. My question is, would your ATF get angry if you see and/or post of review of another lady? Had this happen to me recently. WTF?? I NEVER had a problem with a gent asking me for an reference to see another lady or posting a review for her. I don't own ANY of my clients.  
   
 I sure miss the good ole days  :)

Some ladies just don't understand that clients are NOT PROPERTY. Guys like variety, that's why they are here lol. If they wanted drama they could just stay home with wifey. I've had more than client get harassed by other ladies for seeing me or reviewing me. Even for giving me a higher score than someone else. I've even seen the correspondence from other ladies giving them a hard time. It's really sad. Makes it harder for the rest of us. And that type of behavior certainly does NOT get you repeat business.

We had a wonderful time too..

Posted By: ItalianGabriella
Some ladies just don't understand that clients are NOT PROPERTY. Guys like variety, that's why they are here lol. If they wanted drama they could just stay home with wifey. I've had more than client get harassed by other ladies for seeing me or reviewing me. Even for giving me a higher score than someone else. I've even seen the correspondence from other ladies giving them a hard time. It's really sad. Makes it harder for the rest of us. And that type of behavior certainly does NOT get you repeat business.

And she told me so.  Variaty, of ladies, is not that important to me.

Maybe it's a factor that makes a lady an ATF. But the ones I've always considered as faves absolutely " get it".  Just as I will happily recommend them to fellow hobbyist they not only accept the fact that I'll see and review others , but most readily suggest ladies they think I will like.

My DC fave even did the intros and endorsements to a totally UTR lady  who happened to be absolutely fabu

Early into this hobby I was less experienced in maintaining playful boundaries sometimes.  It was hard to see men who verbally gushed that they were only wanting and seeing me and then I would see random posts and reviews...I grew up and understood the game of attraction and kept it moving.

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There are probably a dozen (out of 40) girls that I've seen in the hobby to whom I would love to make regular return visits. But at the same time there are always other girls who are either new in town, or new to me, or just visiting, and since I can't afford the time or money to see them all I haven't really been able to get back more than once or twice to the ones that I thought knocked it out of the park.

It never occurred to me that any of the would be jealous of me seeing other girls. That's the whole point of the hobby, I thought.

I am excited about seeing them as they are about seeing me in the in-between visits.  If they happen to come across a lady that sent his mind and body into an erotic zone and he wants to express how he felt by leaving a good review for her, I would think no less of him. I like to think, that this little erotic world that I am a part of, as an "open door policy".
We come and go as we please, but respect our boundaries!!

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