i like to give and receive. Any providers include this service?

Guess not? I'm traveling to Raleigh next week and want to get something setup. It will be my first time meeting a provider - looking to try something I never have.

It should be novel enough having a typical meeting for your very first time with a provider. Once you've had a good time together and she's confirmed you're not crazy, you can talk about indulging your fetishes.