When you see one of providers her on Ter and you go home should you send them a text and thank them or should the provider send you a text and thank you.  The Question who should send the fist tex

Only because I don't know what his communication status is like (Is he alone?  Does he want to hear from me? Will this get him in trouble?) and would not want him caught off guard.  That would defeat the pleasurable experience we just had.

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Send an email. If the gent would like to text me, that's fine. I don't have anyone to answer to but the cat LOL I don't want to get someone into trouble, so I'll wait for the gent to text when he is available.

I try and send a thank you email when I can (never a text out of respect for discretion) but sometimes I get caught up and forget. It's always nice when a gent sends a note, makes me feel good knowing that he for sure had a good time if he's taking his time to reach out. Sometimes there's no contact til the next time and it's not a big deal.

I find it quite charming to have them hit me up

The hobbyists shoukd initiate the thank you txt, I am always scared I will txt and the wrong prson is beside them....