Maybe the ones you've contacted can't hold an intelligent conversation?

Just sayin'. I mean, men participate in the hobby for a multitude of reasons. And for quite a few, its truly for the companionship. There are the ones that are purely interested in sex, the "show", the next great thing, the best rated, the reviewing, gloating, critiquing, etc, that are the ones who completely make this a true hobby or lifestyle. And then there are the guys that really just want an experience where they can have a great time, and basically just feel like they are with the true girl next door that happens to give some fabulous extras!

You should search around, and look over some ladies websites. Myself for example, I prefer extended dates where I get a a chance to be myself, have some intelligent conversation, and discuss something beyond what position you like. Normal conversation. The ability to conduct oneself in a public setting as if you've actually done it before and actually enjoy it. Ladies that actually have something to say, are intelligent, classy, and most likely the type you are looking for, will come across that way on their websites. It will be more involved than just a few pages with some photos and their rate.

I have no idea what you're looking for, just trying to help you out. It might help if you make a post about what you're actually looking for. Like.... I live in this town/city... I'm looking for this type of lady... You can also put up a post on the "In Search Of" board. It's over to your left. Good luck, and hope you find what you're looking for!

GM