Yes, it's very frustrating to spend so much time putting all my information together on one site just to be asked the same stuff I already provided. Sigh.

When they message any type of inquiry that is covered by the site, or attempt to waste time with idle chat, I simply reply with a link to my site  and the caption "All your questions are answered on my site. Review it thoroughly at your leisure and send me the preferred date and time for your requested encounter along with reference info.Until then, Thanks for the interest and Have a great day!" If they persist and reply with some nonsense  like "I just wanna know real quick .......... " I copy and paste the link and exact same msg above that I just sent them as a reply to each and every subsequent unnecssary msg they send me until they give up the nonsense. If they are serious about seeing you they will take the time to go over your site and follow proper etiquette. If not,  refuse to engage with them and save your time for worthy gentlemen. It always works for me!

how I feel as a bartender lol.  "What beers do you have?" Point to the book in front of them.

I’ve never asked any questions via email or text rather than “is tomorrow nite good?”
I’ve never questioned/debated the $$ - just confirmed what is listed on her site
I’ve never asked questions before or after our meeting other than “can we do this again next Tuesday?”
I’ve never asked “are your pics real/current?”  “Is your stated age/weight accurate?”
I’ve never canceled on someone the same day.
As a businessman I know that repeat business from my customers is based on my performance/attitude.  The vast majority of TER ladies “get this” and act accordingly w/me - their customer
I’m very careful not to overstay our meeting
This whole “thing” is very simple and straight-forward IMHO

The first part and the last part, and maybe that middle bit  

"If I have not replied to your message, it could be for one of the following reasons..."

This way you are covered when you send non-serious inquiry messages into the trash bin, and don't engage. That energy is best (and better) spent on serious potential new friends, and especially for those who are current ones!

We can only spread ourselves so thin!

And if you miss one that might actually be serious and a good match, and if they are an understanding person, they will contact you again. Many serious new friends will understand and appreciate that you don't toss your energy everywhere.

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