I don't really get it either but I have asked the same question..

I had one tell me. He felt less guilty if he did not take the time to get to know her or remember her name.. They also know they can only last 10 min. so the cheaper the better.. Some can only sneak a few bucks out at a time and just can't wait.. ( that cash is burning a hole in their D***)

It is as simple as, There are some that want to get down to business and grab a quickie and those that want a companion and are willing to spend a few extra bucks. Last but not least there are those that want it all with little to no effort on their part...

Male's opinion. They don't know any better because..

they have never experienced the completess that comes from having some small connection (other than the physical) with their lady.

They might have moved up from using SW's and not know what they are missing.

I was fortunate in that my first courtesan was understanding and led me gently through the meeting.  I know that it wasn't much fun for her since I was like a mannequin the entire time. I am now much more confident and hope to see her again soon to make ammends for my first performance.  Hopfully she will be gracious enough to give me another chance.

I don't get it---women & wine...

That old saying that women are like fine wine is true---they must be savored by all of a man's senses in order to be truly appreciated.  30 minutes with a beautiful woman is akin to chugging that wine and not sipping it to get its full flavor;P AH, the flavor of a woman is truly intoxicating and can not be rushed to "market", per se.  
I agree that saving the $, until you get the needed amount, for at least an hour with a lady of quality is the way to make a memory that you will  want to play over again and again in your mind's eye.
However, A man's internal chemistry can sometimes DEMAND release, and that can be an overriding thorn in the side of reason(

doing the same the over and over and expecting a different result.  Believe it or no,t some men thrive in the "chase" of finding that diamond in the rough...the inexpensive girl they can get their rock off and then brag to world how they did this for XXX. Its the thrill of the "hunt" If that's your game...more power to you...my client knows that our time is a no complaining zone and we don't talk about other ladies in a negative fashion...I don't want any of that.

Some don't have enough $$, some not enough common sense, some just don't know any better, while others are just begging for a crappy session (I've seen and done worse by request)

who knows????

This is kind of like the question for the ages isn't it? I know I am posting on this late and pretty much no one is going to read it but what the heck. I have a special purpose and an opinion so what the heck!

The older I get, the more mature I get, ok they most likely do not mix with me all the time, just saying....

What I am getting at human beings just seem to me to be dumber the older I get.

Human behavior is a great mystery to me and I got no clue at my advancing age.

I could not agree with Sexy more and I will also say I consider myself the luckiest fella in the world for having being honored to have visitied with the ladies I have seen in the hobby.

I am picky and always research the best I can being I request time and companionship with a lady.

I have had some of the most toe-curling times imagineable. I absolutely adore women and have just been SO fortunate.

BUT, I know everything after but is bull....  So what! The bottom line is a person has the right to make whatever choices they want to make. Are they the choices I would make, no, HELL NO! On the other hand, YES, HELL YES ABSOLUTELY!!! Ah the paradox of the human condition!!!!!

I FULLY understand the idea some folks have of this thing of ours is less than something to brag about.
My expereince has been the total opposite. Jeez Louise if you filled a room with the gals I have been so fortunate to spend time with and go in and meet them you would find some of the most beautiful, sexy, interesting, smart women anywhere. Then take a look at me and say, "you spent intimate time with them, HOLY CRAP where do I sign up"??????? LOL

I am trying to tell you I am not only saying I am the luckiest fella in the world I actually MEAN it!

Here is one thing I have found concerning human behavior. We tend to go and seek out to prove what we truly believe! I KNOW I KNOW I am getting all deep and shit. It is true though. Plus how many people are gonna read this as old as this post is anyway?

So a fella has an idea the hobby is a 130-150 for an experience. He gets it, right? He does not really know there is really anything else to it. If he ONLY KNEW......but the fact is he doesn't! He is proving to himself what he really thinks about the hobby. Ok he got what he knew he would find.

So the thing I am interested in knowing is from the ladies is does the appreciation go both ways? I think it does at least in my experience, just asking to give ya'll a chance to express yourselves.

I mean gals, do you really appreciate that a fella is willing to do his research? Be picky, of ALL the choices he could make he chooses YOU. He chooses you because to the best of his ability he is taking the gamble to have you prove intimate bliss is there to be had?

I would like to take this as my chance to once again let all the gals I have visited with how much I appreciate their willingness to share themselves with me. Not sure if I could ever find the words to express my admiration and respect for them and appreciation.

I know in this crazy world a simple thank you does not carry much weight. On the other hand maybe it is kinda like my little johnson, not really all that much to talk about but can still pack a punch!

Anyway, if anyone does find this in this old thread just remember you ALWAYS find what you are looking for. If you want something different first get clear on what you really want to prove to yourself, then go about proving THAT to yourself. All up to you, your choice!

Ok enough of my bloviating for now! Now guys go out there and find the hottest sexiest woman you can find and do EVERYTHING you can do to make sure she is completely satisfied and then see what happens!!!!!!

And gals if I have not seen you yet, all I can say is I am working on it!!!!!! Too many gorgeous, sexy, interesting women out there and too little time and moola!!!! OH THE HUMANITY!!!!!!!!

Shifterp OUT!!!!