Gents and ladies - Do you appreciate and enjoy the extra effort made by your date to provide Scented Candles or Candlelight, Sexy Satin Sheets, or soft music, etc?  Maybe Strawberries dipped in Chocolate.  
I'm a total sucker if a gent has wine, flowers, or candles when I arrive.  My panties practically fall off!  With me even a little effort pays off bigtime lol.

Give me some intellictual conversation, witty banter and a good smelling man and it doesn't take much to get my panties to fall off.  Even less if I wasn't wearing any to begin with.  

The extras are always a nice touch.  They make me feel that much more special, like a real date.  I personally love sharing a bottle of wine with a woman. I did so with a former provider to the point where I looked forward to that aspect of our vists, along with the conversation, as much as the physical intimacy.
I hesitate to bring a bottle on first dates simply because some provider sites seem to discourage that.

Yes, I love the amenities but usually don't care for the food aspect.  A provider once told me never to eat or drink anything you don't see being opened.  I think I hurt one providers feelings as she had set out a very nice cheese and crackers and I had brought the wine, but I didn't partake.  She didn't hold it against me though and i had one of the best experiences (aka Kennedy Experience) EVER!

I had a guy go all out (to me) ...I thought "all of this for a 90min date?!'" lol. The way he set up the bed, bottle of wine he asked me about chilling with 2 glasses waiting, he'd bought this ipod music stand and had made a playlist lol, candles everywhere...sounds simple but it seemed very done up to me lol I was a little wet before he even touched me haha.