It means repeat business for me, if a lady seems to get satisfaction from our session.
A gfe for me truly is when she is enjoying herself.
Biggest turnoff is when a lady just lays there during daty. Midas well just stay home with your SO. lol
Tiger
I have been waching the boards for a while and no one has asked the ladies: Do you realy ever let a guy satisfy your sexual intrests or is it only about getting the guy off. I have had many encounters with you Ladies and it seems they all want to make me cum and leave. I have asked if there is a special "thing" they like but I never get a responce. I enjoy seeing and feeling a Woman cum..
that's a good question to ask them in respects im the same way as you it's nothing like experiencing a woman when she is cumming.it feels good knowing that when you leave them that their appetites were quenched as well.
What to do to get me off!! If we both cum...we both leave feeling that much better about the experience. Because I know most men enjoy the woman cumming as much as themselves. It's all about having as much fun as possible..for both parties...my main concern is for my gentlemen friend...but if he can do what it takes to get me off....DO IT!!!!!!!! Lol
Kisses
Aubrey
well unless the experience is just plain awful then the guy will most definately have enjoyed his time with her.i like being the center of attention but at the same time i like to make sure she is enjoying herself as well not just for my benefit but because i got her off to.
We are the same as any other woman except we know and are not afraid of pleasure.
If you read the reviews, you will find a number of ladies who love a mutually satisfying experience.
I find my special friends really like to please the lady as well as themselves. You may want to re-evaluate who you are choosing to spend time with if all they want is to "get you off and then have you leave".
xoxo,
Steph
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Do you have any recommendation for the northern Charlotte area that wont cost me an arm and leg!
But you sure would have enjoyed me when I was in Charlotte a few weeks ago![]()
If price is your main focal point, let me throw this out to you...would you rather save up for one really outstanding experience or have a couple of mediocre to sub par experiences with ladies that want you out so they can move on to the next guy as soon as you are gone? Money is tight right now I know, so spend yours wisely ![]()
Some ladies are running "specials" right now, so just check around and then go have some quality fun!!!
xoxo,
Steph
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I have been a hands only provider for over 15 years and have had an amazing life both on and off the table as a result of this lifestyle choice. I love my work, I love cock, and I love witnessing the beauty of a really powerful orgasm. I have had clients tell me that our work together has absolutely transformed their sexuality, both for themselves and with their SO. However, this issue often comes up between me and my clients where their heartfelt and earnest longing is to please me back. I have tremendous compassion for them in this case, but I have also noticed over the years that there is something very valuable in it for the man who will totally surrender to my slow, attentive and intense ministrations. I think it has to do, in part with the kind of conditioning that many men struggle with that tells them they can only receive pleasure if they are sure they have earned it by pleasing their partner. With me, a client can drop that at the door and have an opportunity to feel and experience their own pleasure without having to DO anything. Of course, this is not for everyone but for those who can appreciate it, there is a lot of satisfaction.
This is actually my first time re-visiting this board in many, many months, and I'm probably too late for my two cents to mean anything here, but I couldn't resist replying: First of all, in general, I would prefer to "kiss and tell" as little as possible, though I understand it's something of a necessary evil to have to have "reviews" and such in order to offset the even greater evil of rip-offs, etc. Having said that, unnecessarily in all probability, my take on "Providers" is that you simply cannot be one unless you're uninhibited when it comes to, well, coming, for both parties. I don't like to debase intimacy to anacronyms myself, nor do I ever discuss, much less guarantee, anything toward that end that has been written about me. But I do believe that the best providers are women who are, contrary to our overall socialization, quite "at home" with their own sexuality, and are therefore more open to pleasure than the traditionally "guilt-ridden" "good girls" of our time. Personally I resent that society strives to slot (pun-?) women into prearranged "roles," i.e., the "good" girl next door who's probably masturbating every night secretly with her "neck massager," versus the overtly "girl can't help it" sexual woman who SHOULD be as much entitled to her own sexuality--without retribution, that is--as men have been for--ever-?
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Thank you for the statment. I would like to find the provider who is not afraid to be touched.
BTW your link does not work.
chime in, if I may. Satisfying the lady is as important to me as my own satisfaction, sometimes more. Mutual satisfaction takes some of the "mechanical motions" out of the session and makes it better for both.
Amen.........
i could not have said it any better myself im in total agreement
I have to agree with MatureGFE, You guys evidently aren't seeing the right providers. I enjoy my work and love it when my Gentlemen want to help me enjoy it more. Also i have never been a clock watcher so if the fireworks go off early we are still going to enjoy our full time together doing something we enjoy if it's only touching and talking!
no one said we aren't seeing the right providers but every hobyist has come across at least one provider that was about making sure we got ours and was out the door. the question was for you ladies and i think we kinda took it over in our responses. so in response as one of the other providers said im more satisfied knowing you got satisfied as well.
It means repeat business for me, if a lady seems to get satisfaction from our session.
A gfe for me truly is when she is enjoying herself.
Biggest turnoff is when a lady just lays there during daty. Midas well just stay home with your SO. lol
Tiger