I know there are a lot of ladies that use this board to advertise on but hardly any of them besides a select few participate in the discussions or anything. I for one do not understand why that is so. TER is a wonderful medium for advertisements and I just do not understand why more ladies choose not to showcase their personality and attributes.

Showing off your body is great, showing off your mind is awesome but being able to showcase both of them at the same time is invaluable.

~Miss Rae

It seems that with all the different boards out there and the time each of us has is really limited.  See I figure if you divide the time each lady has to do everything (advertise, entertain, family, personal etc)then from that limited slice of time they have to do posting, reading, responding, email, etc.  Now if you take that small amount of time and divide it by the several different boards that are available and popular in NC, the average lady may not have the time it takes to participate in discussions on each board that she may be a member of. Having so many boards, in my opinion, is a good thing and a bad thing.  We have all types of boards with all different members and discussions, it would be time effective to have only one main board but then it isn't realistic and having several boards makes it easier for it to be small nit groups.  I myself may read the posts and never respond but it is only because I myself am raising 4 children (2 of which are my late brothers and one adopted), closing on a new house in 2 weeks, and between dishes, laundry, homework, advertising, email, and entertaining I sometimes find myself online at 2 am reading what all you wonderful ppl are saying.