Being white-listed should be good enough for some ladies..it is for me. And also..I call agencies all the time to get references..

I've used them for the most part. Because, they can usually accommodate my last minute scheduling. Not always, but more then a fair bit of the time they look out for me as best they can.  Now here is my problem. I've tried to see a few different independent providers. However, they have asked me for two personal providers to vouch for me. I haven't seen anyone that was independent in quite sometime.  Mostly because of my scheduling issues.  Even though, I am white listed by several ladies over the last year or so. These providers still want to speak with someone I have seen. But, the ones I have seen have been agency ladies.  Apparently, using an agency for reference isn't good enough nor is being white listed. What should I do?

But in general your whitelists and an agency reference would be acceptable for me.  All ladies have their own way of screening and feeling comfortable so its a YMMV kind of thing.  Sorry I can't help any more.

contact a lady you have seen and simply ask her if she would give you a reference.  I dont think the white list counts for much,  but a lady that is thoughtful enough to white list you may also be kind enough to give you a reference.  If it is against her policy I wouldnt hold any hard feelings.  Anyhow maybe you need a rematch lol.  I can think of one................

I would like to use them but they keep your references on a computer. When they get raided, what do you think happens to your information. ding ding ding. Yes, you are open for investigation.

I worked for a great agency and they did not keep anything on a computer. And do you not email independents when you see them??? On a computer??

It's just that LE targets agencies more heavily so your risk is greater.

Agencies will say they are "hush hush" about your info, but don't you believe it.