I know it's generally inappropriate to ask things of a more personal nature unless you've seen a Provider more than once - sometimes, it's still poor form. When trust is there, it's a lot easier.

However, that does put a damper on things, even after you've read the reviews of some of your favorite girls - not to mention the reviewers themselves.

However, I still find myself guessing as to what a lady / provider might want. JoeSchmoeXXX2 might say that BeautifulGirl69 REALLY likes something, or at least she does with him, but what is the best way to find this out from a provider, especially prior to seeing?

Personally, I really like giving oral sex. And I also really like rimming - and oh have I seen some beautiful asses on Tushy Tuesdays.

But(t), how do I discover the providers that are really into BOTH of those things? Not just necessarily catering to me, but also really like them, too?

I dont think there is a simple answer.  And I dont think you will really ever know. I have even tried when talking to a lady to get her to do the date for her enjoyment.  She said she gets satisfaction from pleasing me.  Go figure. The only question you should have is -  is she willing to provide what you are desiring.  Will she enjoy it??? Maybe.  If she says she likes it then just go with it.  

As for what she will allow.   Maybe asking what is off limits or what her rules are may help.  And then dont cross the line.  And if she says no then no is the answer.  If you dont like it, you can just look elsewhere.  But is she can convince you that she loved it, you will be back. lol

Party on dude/

is to get a VIP membership if you don't already have one.  Then READ the reviews.  If the activity is mentioned in several of the reviews then its a pretty good bet that the lady at least doesn't hate it.  You can also backchannel with the gents that have seen her to see if they will share any other opinions.

Read EVERYTHING on the lady's website.  If she has a blog, study it.  Lots of good information is shared with those who take time to do their homework.  Search back 3-4 years on TER for her posts.  Don't forget to check the GD and the NEWBIE boards.  There might not be anything there but you might find a diamond.

Treat her like a real girlfriend and go slowly.  If you start getting too close to some areas she is uncomfortable with you will find out.  She will either squirm away or tell you to stop.  Like RS2 said eariler  "No MEANS No!".  Just because you are paying for her time doesn't mean that she doesn't deserve your full respect.

While enjoying the company of each other do what comes natural!
Stop thinking so much..
As long as you are a gentleman, your lady friend will share with you that what you are doing
is really, really good or she will guide you to another activity...


I do not reccommend that you ask these things prior to meeting your lady friend.. This will most likely get you a canceled appointment or the cold shoulder. There are some things you just CAN'T
talk about...

Good Luck

I have found this out the hard way. There are some providers that just don't like being asked any sort of question. While, others simply refer you to the reviews.  Like Sphinx said buy a VIP or become a VIP and what is offer or not is generally is clearly listed. Also my dear Ms. Jessica is right as well. You can't get so caught up in the details that you loose out on the whole experience.

Jay, let me close with simply saying this. You just don't know sometimes. If you have a good reputation on the board. Or at least are well reviewed by other providers.  You might get a completely different experience then you expected. I can tell you from recent experience. That taking the time to get to know a provider. That is willing to do so and is so inclined to do so. Can certainly make for a earth moving experience.

I, like you, also love rimming especially when the lady is really into it.  Any providers out there in the Charlotte area who fit this description, please M or email me.

There is no way of PMing you.