I would add that your husband wants to cum in your mouth.  Make it sexy for him, and show it to him before you swallow it.  Shave or trim your pussy and make sure that it is clean for dining.  Take your time, it is real important for his ego if you have a real orgasm and don't fake it or rush it and not cum.  Do something exciting like role-playing.  Buy some velcro handcuffs, let him watch you masturbate with a toy.  Dress up in some sexy lingerie and heels for him.  Experiment and see if his nipples are sensitive.  Give him a prostrate massage while giving him a bj.  And lastly, talking is not necessary unless it's dirty.  lol