Need help.  I saw Suzie's great reviews, but they want the standard 2 provider references.  I've been out of the hobby several years and although I have dozens of reviews here, they won't accept a reference older than 2 years (which I get).  

Can you all recommend a great spinner,  coed or beauty who will see me without 2 provider references, won't cost crazy $$$s since I will be meeting them for the first time, but will be ok being a provider reference down the road?  It's like the chicken and the egg....I can't meet a great lady without seeing other women to get a provider reference, but I can't get a provider reference without seeing a provider!!!

Personally I have found the reference system to work very well for a long time, along with White List Referrals here at TER.  There are legitimate and very good reasons for both providers and clients to maintain a high level of discretion and not reveal personal information to anyone while participating in the hobby.  Given that there are both non-reputable providers and shady clients as you point out, then should clients also screen providers through Real-World-Information?

With old reviews RWI you should be back in the game and then have references with vetted ladies.  

Steph XO

Thanks for the replies to my post.  I'll never provide RWI because I'm an executive who has signed different policies for employment.  I won't risk losing my job, reputation and livelihood.  If super secure company's like Equifax, where my personal information was hacked and sold, and sites like AshleyMadison, again where my information was hacked and sold, there is NO way I can trust RWI in the hobby.  I'm left with slowly building up provider references.  

Im looking to receive more hobbyist reviews in the Carolina’s and build trust within the community so if u want u can pm me for more details I’m based out of charlotte Nc not sure where u are looking and we could do a meet and greet over a drink and FaceTime call to start out for both of our security l!!

Thanks Ava for sharing and sorry for my slow reply.  I'll private message you.

Some of us oldschool players love a man with a long list of reputable references.