I may be biased but pretty sure you could not be a CEO. Maybe an admin at best.
Second, the sword cuts both ways. I am sure you wouldn't want to know what most hobbyist think of providers. Not me, others :0) Last, when you probably come back to providing, you may find not as many clients after your rant.The fact that gents think we actually have a connection during that first few hours of meeting is a joke. GFE should be washed away and allow this to be what it is. It's not an emotional connection, never will be, because women do not work that way. Connections happen once we have feelings for someone, and personally, I will never have feelings for someone that pays for comfort.
GFE is acting, and apparently I should get an Oscar.
I think I'm able to pull it off because I learned quickly as a dancer to become someone I'm not to pull money out of guys, which is an dancers job.
If we could put the success of an escort on a resume, all of us would be qualified to be the CEO of any fortune 500 since a CEO is simply a glorified sales person.
I'm retired as of 11pm, so I have no more issues telling the hard truths no one wants to hear.
I was reading a comment on the GD board that spoke of a waitress saying she was an 'actress', noting she should just do the job she's there for. It was generally speaking of all providers, expressing the job we have… to serve… "Don't say you're … (this or that) … just do what you're here to do." (I'm paraphrasing to the max here.)
Here's the thing… what is the server really saying while placing your salad before you? Is he/she really saying "I'm an actor," or is he/she saying something along the lines of… "I know this is what you see, but this isn't really who I am. I have a lot more to this." While doing an awesome job, by the way, lol.
Sure, they may not be where they 'say' they want to be, but we shouldn't ever think that way about our dreams or they won't stand a chance… a real visionary speaks as though their visions will happen. "The only people crazy enough to dream big are the ones who's dreams come true." (Excuse the who's… lol)
In a lot of reviews, we see men who say, "She was all business," or "She was all physical. No persona whatsoever." "She was just a hole." "She didn't look at me." Of course, because he was looking for a GFE and didn't get what was advertised.
I'll wrap this up with two (multi-faceted) questions…
If a man is looking for GFE, is it one dimensional? Just a GF who listens to him yap about himself and how awesome his accomplishments are to her? (His fantasy, lol.) Or is it two-dimensional, where it goes beyond him and the physical, and they connect as GF and BF for the scheduled time? (Makes sex that much better.) Or are you really looking for someone with no dreams or aspirations so we can be all physical and suck you that much better? lol. I would think a man would feel more of a man if he not only made a provider 'O', but also made her day, and possibly future, by adding a little word to show he believes in what she says. Takes but a second to say a few words to encourage someone else.
Second… We all know as providers that we are human with worlds of capabilities and dreams festering inside of us. Do you ever wonder why you share your life, hobbies, education and goals with a stranger?
Just some thoughts. Was going to post this on the other board, but I think the Carolinas would be a great place to start.
xoxoxoxoxo
CrOva
Who wants to just fuck a hole? Did that once or twice, I left feeling weird and almost dirty. If I just wanted to bust a nut I would just rub one out myself.
Personally I grade personality as much as looks. Some jaded guy may say "ya can't fuck personality" true but ya sure as hell can't talk to looks alone. I don't look so much to connect on an emotional level with every lady I've met, but try and gauge her personality from a couple emails to make sure she's got a sense of humor and can communicate like an intelligent person. I try and make it fun for her to, 99% of the time you will be rewarded for good manners, being a caring guy, and of course trying to make sure she gets hers too :0)
Depends on how much info she shares as to trying to encourage her or whatever, I hope when I leave the lady will remember me fondly and won't feel used or whatever.
And then there's times when you really do connect, I've been privy to some very personal info from a couple ladies. When the trust level is that high it's obvious the connection is mutual. Those ladies I will try and help out or lend a ear to if they need a friend or a kind word when life gets them down a bit. Not looking for extras or anything just being a decent person, some ladies need that. Can't exactly talk to many folks about the way this biz can grind on ya.
So for me I like the gfe but I try and provide a bit of BFE too. If its all about me it's boring.
Luckily for me, several "therapists" have good ears, and also open up, so its just not a one way street.
After all, olde Sparky can't go at it for an hour, LoL
Here's the thing… what is the server really saying while placing your salad before you? Is he/she really saying "I'm an actor," or is he/she saying something along the lines of… "I know this is what you see, but this isn't really who I am. I have a lot more to this." While doing an awesome job, by the way, lol.
Sure, they may not be where they 'say' they want to be, but we shouldn't ever think that way about our dreams or they won't stand a chance… a real visionary speaks as though their visions will happen. "The only people crazy enough to dream big are the ones who's dreams come true." (Excuse the who's… lol)
In a lot of reviews, we see men who say, "She was all business," or "She was all physical. No persona whatsoever." "She was just a hole." "She didn't look at me." Of course, because he was looking for a GFE and didn't get what was advertised.
I'll wrap this up with two (multi-faceted) questions…
If a man is looking for GFE, is it one dimensional? Just a GF who listens to him yap about himself and how awesome his accomplishments are to her? (His fantasy, lol.) Or is it two-dimensional, where it goes beyond him and the physical, and they connect as GF and BF for the scheduled time? (Makes sex that much better.) Or are you really looking for someone with no dreams or aspirations so we can be all physical and suck you that much better? lol. I would think a man would feel more of a man if he not only made a provider 'O', but also made her day, and possibly future, by adding a little word to show he believes in what she says. Takes but a second to say a few words to encourage someone else.
Second… We all know as providers that we are human with worlds of capabilities and dreams festering inside of us. Do you ever wonder why you share your life, hobbies, education and goals with a stranger?
Just some thoughts. Was going to post this on the other board, but I think the Carolinas would be a great place to start.
xoxoxoxoxo
CrOva
I have not had bad time with any provider I have see. I behave like a gentleman, talk to them, listen to them and in most cases we become friends.
It is not difficult as long as one curb the ego and keep it real.
One of the best things about TER is that hobbyists are encouraged to be verbose in their reviews and everybody is encouraged to play nice but speak their mind on the board. The net result is that everybody who is so inclined can form some impressions about a person they are contemplating spending some time with. This includes physical characteristics, preferences and prohibitions, routines , etc. So the potential is there for everybody to find what they are looking for and identify what they are looking to avoid. If a guy wants anything BUT a girlfriend experience, he can find that. If a guy wants a great listener, a football fan, an oenophile, a gourmet cook, a dog-lover, a biker chick, a goalie who can make it through the entire game, a short Mediterranean vacation, someone who reminds him of his high school sweetheart, his English teacher, etc., with a little effort he can find that person. If a gal is hoping to avoid socializing with guys who use only "natural" hygiene products or who are a bit too free with dispensing a 'friendly slap on the ass', there are ways to figure that out.
In short, if folks simply be themselves, albiet using assumed names, rather than trying to figure out how they should "play" the upcoming interaction, that's probably the best approach.Its all different strokes for different folks and information is the key to interaction.
In the spirit of disclosure, and in case we might consider meeting somewhere down the road, ladies, I am exceptionally partial to women whose kiss sending me on my way is as moving as the one that she greets me with, and nothing lingers on my mind like the (very few) experiences where a lady tugged on my arm as I was rising from her bed, the alloted time having passed, batted her eyes and said, " That clock isn't right! Are you SURE you can't stay long enough to do that again?"
You hit the ail on the head with your reference to "human relations" before the act. By far it makes it all better than a quickie. And after the act is also a time for pillow talk that builds for the next time.
When Charlie Sheen was being sentenced for using a prostitute, the judge asked him why a man like him would pay for sex, Sheen replied: "I don't pay them for sex. I pay them to leave".
I highly doubt he was hiring $300 escorts, lol. I wonder if he looked for "GFE" or "PSE". "PSE" i'd totally understand where he's coming from!
Well, not to toot my own horn, but my other 40+ reviews as Krystin all said I was the best GFE some of the biggest reviewers have ever met. I have reviews now that say it, and if you Google me, you will find on other boards saying the same thing.
The fact that gents think we actually have a connection during that first few hours of meeting is a joke. GFE should be washed away and allow this to be what it is. It's not an emotional connection, never will be, because women do not work that way. Connections happen once we have feelings for someone, and personally, I will never have feelings for someone that pays for comfort.
GFE is acting, and apparently I should get an Oscar.
I think I'm able to pull it off because I learned quickly as a dancer to become someone I'm not to pull money out of guys, which is an dancers job.
If we could put the success of an escort on a resume, all of us would be qualified to be the CEO of any fortune 500 since a CEO is simply a glorified sales person.
I'm retired as of 11pm, so I have no more issues telling the hard truths no one wants to hear
Girlfriend Fantasy Experience?
Maybe we can change it!
Congrats on the retirement. Many blessings to your future.
xoxo
I may be biased but pretty sure you could not be a CEO. Maybe an admin at best.
Second, the sword cuts both ways. I am sure you wouldn't want to know what most hobbyist think of providers. Not me, others :0)
Last, when you probably come back to providing, you may find not as many clients after your rant.
biggest reviewers have ever met. I have reviews now that say it, and if you Google me, you will find on other boards saying the same thing.
The fact that gents think we actually have a connection during that first few hours of meeting is a joke. GFE should be washed away and allow this to be what it is. It's not an emotional connection, never will be, because women do not work that way. Connections happen once we have feelings for someone, and personally, I will never have feelings for someone that pays for comfort.
GFE is acting, and apparently I should get an Oscar.
I think I'm able to pull it off because I learned quickly as a dancer to become someone I'm not to pull money out of guys, which is an dancers job.
If we could put the success of an escort on a resume, all of us would be qualified to be the CEO of any fortune 500 since a CEO is simply a glorified sales person.
I'm retired as of 11pm, so I have no more issues telling the hard truths no one wants to hear.
your attitude on some of your board postings would have me steering clear of ever meeting you.
I could really careless. Guys like you are the main reason I started hating this business in the first place. Those that know me, know me
Your statement "Last, when you probably come back to providing, you may find not as many clients after your rant" kind of resembles someone thinking were nothing but dumb bimbos that cannot do anything else in life....
1. I'm a veteran and received most of my medical training from Uncle Sam (Thanks USA)
2. I used providing as a means to pay my tuition to finish school with no debt and obtain a MD (I'm debt free)
3. My current contract is giving $6,000 a scene with 20 scenes guaranteed a year for 2 years.
I would be a dumb bimbo to ever be a provider again. Guess what, I'm far from dumb or a bimbo
smart and probably beautiful.
One thing is for sure, you have represented yourself self as ugly on the inside and harbor anger towards the lifestyle that created the ability for you to be financial secure.
Good luck.
1. I'm a veteran and received most of my medical training from Uncle Sam (Thanks USA)
2. I used providing as a means to pay my tuition to finish school with no debt and obtain a MD (I'm debt free)
3. My current contract is giving $6,000 a scene with 20 scenes guaranteed a year for 2 years.
I would be a dumb bimbo to ever be a provider again. Guess what, I'm far from dumb or a bimbo.