This Tuesday will be exactly one year since my first encounter with an escort.
I thought it would be appropriate to mark the occasion with a tribute to the ladies I have seen over the past year, those I hope to see in the future, and those whom, sadly, there will not be enough time to see.
My first encounter was right after my divorce became final. Because of the lousy state of my marriage during its last few years, and my determination to remain faithful to my wife even during the separation, so that I wouldn't risk losing custody of my children, I had gone literally for years without any sex at all. Once the divorce was final and the custody issue resolved in my favor, I was ready to have a sex life again, but didn't want to start dating yet or have any kind of emotional entanglement. So I started surfing websites for local escorts and agencies, and ran across references to TER. This was a great resource - I spent a lot of time on the newbie board trying to learn the ropes.
I finally decided on someone who appeared to be an experienced escort working through a local agency. She had a lot of good TER reviews, and her reviewers had done lots of other reviews, so I thought it was probably safe. Even so, I was scared to death at the first meeting - very worried it might be a scam, a sting, or worse.
When I met her, I couldn't believe my good fortune. She was a gorgeous, petite blonde, and did a great job making me feel relaxed and comfortable, and telling me what to do because I didn't have a clue! I kept thinking "this can't really be happening" because it was so great. Now that I am a little more experienced, I laugh at how scared and unsure I was during that first encounter, and am so thankful that it was with an escort who made it such a positive experience. Many thanks to Erica - you are the best, babe!
Since then I have seen about a dozen different escorts, all from the Carolinas and the Atlanta area. I have had a few experiences that were not great -- interestingly, all of these were with younger ladies who were new to the hobby -- but on the whole this has been just a great thing for me. I am still not interested in dating or any kind of emotional relationship at this point, I'm still burned out from the last years of a bad marriage and emotionally totally focused on my kids, but to be able to have incredible sex with a diverse group of beautiful women is just fabulous. It's exactly what I need, and I am so grateful to have found a way to make it happen.
So I want to offer a sincere, heartfelt tribute to all of the professional escorts out there. You are doing a really good thing, and you are really good at it. In a world filled with sadness and pain, it is not a bad or unimportant thing to be giving others pleasure and fun.
