If they R scared...WHY CALL TO BEGIN WITH????

We could ask the same thing of providers. They wait until the last minute and if they do bother to answer their phone or contact us, they come up with a lame excuse (usually car trouble). Other than my ATF, I probably get stood up (no pun intended) about 30 - 40% of the time.

That is too bad.

Hey Bailey, I'm sorry that happened to you. I've never had that problem. I hope you are putting these men ( NCNS) on your DNS list. Take care doll.

That seems a little bit exagerated.  I know it happens often with less experienced hobbyist and unprofessional providers.

I have been in this biz for many years, seen hundreds of girls, and have always been on time and only canceled once with less than a couple  days notice once.  On that occurance I met her later and paid her for her time.  These days I only see high end professional ladies whom have a solid history.  I have had numerous NS, and its very maddening.  Better screening from both parties usually will eliminate this....

It is very common for visiting providers to be plagued by jealous local girls who put guys or their handlers up to making fake appointments with the visitors in an attempt to run them off quickly or at least cause them to second guess ever coming back.  The probability of you having that many cancellations or no shows in one day is so unlikely from legit guys that I would bet you must be exaggerating or you have been victum of jealous locals.

Maybe the etiquette's dead, and it's not only hobbyists .. some providers are doing it as well.
I myself have endured no shows, late arrivals, last minute cancellations (I'm already at the hotel parking lot), and no return calls when I get to the hotel.
I shudder to think this is becoming the norm, and keeping appointments and honoring agreements are becoming rare.   Ah time wasters - they are the worst.