Was wondering.  You know us dudes have all these things we ask for from the ladies.  Sometimes we are even a bit critical of some detail.  A lot of the ladies do a lot of research to make your experience with them memorable.  And yes guys they research,  they have even been known to read your reviews.  And what do they ask??? Be clean and respectful pretty much sums it up.  

But I ask in earnest, are you BFE???   And ladies you can chime in.

Your interpretation of the BFE is "right on" in my book, and that's certainly what you gave to me...and I'm sure some other ladies here feel the same way about you and what you bring to the date!

Great post, BTW. Hope you like my little  Blazing Saddles play on words in the subject line!

xoxo,

Steph

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Rodie, Can you clairify?

A boyfriend will go to bed without showering, fart under the covers, and try to control every aspect pf your life.

I think they much prefer the Sugar Daddy Experience,  be lavished with gifts ,be satisfied sexually, and be left alone to live their lives.

I think he wants to know if some of us try to make it as enjoyable for you as you ladies always try to do for us?

If I'm wrong RS2, please clarify.

And to answer your question.

Yes!  I try to make sure the lady is comfortable and has a good time with me.  I might not always be sucessful but I try.

Lots of research and reading.

My number one goal when with a lovely lady, is for her to have as much fun as I do.

Boy Friend Ecperienced.  mmmm  Defined in my mind ----  Coming to the date more like a boy friend than a customer. If I am dating a civie I act and do certain things.  I am respectful, gentile, kind, gracious.  There is so much involved.  I am interested in her likes and dislikes. I want to know what makes her tick.  I dress a certain way and carry myself differently than when I with the guys.  

Do I make sense or should I seek the assistance of my local shrink?

You are spot on governor.

If you are indeed a gentleman, I WILL notice and  I WILL WANT to see you again.

It's the little things that really make the difference..

So what if we spend alittle extra time or I decide to go to lunch with you.
just BECAUSE I really enjoy your company..
Just as one example!

It's a win, win for us both...

There is nothing wrong with having a particular need for down N dirty, quick and to the point..
either..Please note I am not always all about the winning and dining..

Some of the best SEX I have ever had was with a BF who more or less made it very clear about his urgent need without words....!

Roadie is taking notes.

But then I have had girlfriends that got controlling, nagging,  and just plain bitchy and when I look for GFE, I aint thinking about that.  I guess I am thinking the positive side of BFE, the beginning of the relationship, not the end.  

But you do have a contructive point that I find has value.

I'd make a lousy boyfriend, but like to think I'm a pretty decent hobbyist.