Have you seen a provider where during the first visit she does not allow certain things.  And at the end of your session, she ask if you are a frequent hobbyist. And if you say, you are. She said, she wil let you do more things, if you are a return client?

Share your stories if you have one. I had this happen to me recently and she didn't allow DATY on first visit but will glady do it when I return.