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birdluvr69 75 Reviews 404 reads
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I would hang on to the door until I saw who was behind it. If not A, then I would say---OOPS, WRONG ROOM! and pull the door quickly closed. THAT IS, IF B was NOT EQUAL TO, or BETTER than A. You know all prize offerings tell you that they have option to substitute a prize = 2, OR BETTER:))
If my little brain said HMMMMMM;P B is @ least = 2 A, I would probably TOFTT. BUT, I would pick up my phone and call the agency and tell them that I was subtracting THEIR part of the fee for her time, and if they ever pulled that stunt again without asking if it was O.K. I would never darken their door again, and note what they did on the boards!
Give us a clue as to what state, city this agency is located so that we can inform them that they do not switch without getting our O.K.!!!  Just my 2 cents from your friendly lil neighborhood pooch, eh, Julia^..^

alphred629 reads

Greetings,

I'd really like to hear from both Providers and Hobbyists on when they consider acceptable to walk out on a provider in the case of old pics, bait and switch, or major upsell for anything besides massage or BJ?

There are great providers and hobbyists out there, and there are the other end of both - understood (so please no need for a tangent discussion that not all people are like that - we honestly do know that).

But I've had a bait and switch happen a few times and sometimes I apologized and left and other times I said "well I'm here so what the heck".  Last week called an agency, asked for provider A, went there, and it was Provider B from that agency.  Apologized and was leaving and was informed that there was a cancellation fee and such (there wasnt one listed on the site) and that I was "already in the door" (I came in and the door closed).  Neither of us had undressed, nor had I put my envelope down.  I apologized and stated this is not what I was expecting, tipped her a Jackson for disturbing her (did that another time with a $10 bill as well on a bait & switch) and she was happier about it and I left.

So my question, is what is the 'standard' point of no return?  Would like to follow 'proper' etiquette.

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Sexy Carolina449 reads

and you politely explain the issue, you can walk away. I have done it a few times. I respectfully explained the issue and I never accepted any gifts. I believe it is best to end it right away when something is wrong rather than follow through when in the end someone will be unhappy, uncomfortable or in your case ripped off. I think mutual respect for the business and each other allows us to be able to walk out with an explanation within the first few minutes of the meeting. And I don't believe you should gift/tip someone for misleading you or attempting to rip you off.

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birdluvr69405 reads

I would hang on to the door until I saw who was behind it. If not A, then I would say---OOPS, WRONG ROOM! and pull the door quickly closed. THAT IS, IF B was NOT EQUAL TO, or BETTER than A. You know all prize offerings tell you that they have option to substitute a prize = 2, OR BETTER:))
If my little brain said HMMMMMM;P B is @ least = 2 A, I would probably TOFTT. BUT, I would pick up my phone and call the agency and tell them that I was subtracting THEIR part of the fee for her time, and if they ever pulled that stunt again without asking if it was O.K. I would never darken their door again, and note what they did on the boards!
Give us a clue as to what state, city this agency is located so that we can inform them that they do not switch without getting our O.K.!!!  Just my 2 cents from your friendly lil neighborhood pooch, eh, Julia^..^

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Sphinxnc396 reads

General Discussion board.  You'll probably get the same answers here.  Are you just testing us to check if the South is in alignment with the rest of the nation? :-)

If what you see is not what you expected you should leave right then.  Don't drop the contribution until you are comfortable with the arrangements.  If you are really nice you might want to leave a SMALL cancelation fee and a quick explanation about why you are walking away.

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Intensity_offen365 reads

If there was deception on the providers part, and cant live with it, I leave.  Sometimes I have to get a bet direct, but usually they understand clearly why I have decided not to play.  Conversly, if for any reason I decide not to spend time with the lady, and its  not through any fault of her own, I pay the fee and move on.   I am one of those whom  usually likes new unreviewed providers so I accept the risk....I have never had a problem with a reputable lady

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Sphinxnc372 reads

I am not experienced enough or brave enough yet to sail into uncharted water.  Bless all of you who make the sailing smooth for those who follow.  

May all your journeys be safe

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