Hi Ladies,
       I would like to know if a gentleman has a fetish or fetishes he would want to experience. What is the best way to ask the lady you have a interest in seeing if she would provide that experience without offending her ? I have asked about certain fetishes on the phone only to get yelled at, Hung up on, and cussed at. I have also had ladies that were very nice that I ended up having a fantastic time with. I have since that time used text to ask questions but I feel like sometimes you loose things in translation with text. Text to me is so impersonal. I have used email but this seems to slow for response. Email just seems to drag out to long till we meet. What way would you want someone to ask you ? Thank you.

I agree SweetMelissa that having a rapport with someone may help.

I find some men who ask about my dos and don't have no intention of going through with an appointment, they just want "phone".

Life would be so much easier without the fear of law enforcement. It's unsafe for providers to be specific about providing many types of fetish services in exchange for payment, which is why explicit talk often means the end of a conversation. And unfortunately, besides law enforcement, there are also gentlemen who like corresponding with providers about certain acts -- so I think that extended discussion about certain subjects raises red flags.

It's virtually impossible to discuss things "after the first meeting" with touring girls, who won't be back until God knows when. I'm not a fetish guy, but I like what I like. It's one of the reasons I prefer local girls. Repeat visits get all the way to what I really want.

... speak plainly about what you like and leave it open to ladies that you want to tickle your pickle (and maybe other things) to reach out.
They can already know what you like and if they can accommodate then balls in their court (and maybe later you can put your balls somewhere on them) .
Otherwise .... maybe wait until you're comfy and ask during the date when you two are already rolling around in your birthday suits.

Hi Marie,
   I emailed you back in June. You were very nice and professional when you emailed me back. I didn't call you because according to your website you were on vacation even so you were were nice enough to take the time to respond via email.  

I'm generally quick to respond to emails, don't list my number, and find that email allows me to better learn about my dates' desires while giving me the time to craft thoughtful and personal responses. Like other providers have mentioned, when I did list my number it was exhausting to decipher which potential clients were actually interested in meeting vs. wasting my time wanting to talk about their desires without having any intention of booking.
This all said- I am very fetish-friendly and kink-inclined, and will be in NC next week with some limited availability; I'd be happy to see you!  
xoxoxo
Harlowe

If you find a girl you know is fetish friendly,  once she screens then ask her if you can tell her your "interests" or "dream"  Unless it's not a common fetish, if a girl is fetish friendly I know myself I allow most. So when they ask about dreams or tell me interests I normally just say "I like your dream"

I'm fetish friendly, just depends what it is. I'm in the Charlotte area. You can look at my site, reviews, etc or PM me.