If a woman does not get moist / wet during foreplay , is that a physical or mental issue ?  Would love to hear thoughts  from providers !

Women don't have a button you can push and they will get wet/orgasm.  It's not a mental or physical issue, it simply means she's not aroused.  Ask for feedback on what you are doing wrong if this is the case, keeping in mind even being stressed can caused a woman not to lubricate properly.

Hormonal ups and downs (physical) or she's just in a bad mood and mentally and can't overcome it at the moment, or a host of other reasons like certain medications can contribute to a woman not getting wet. And maybe a gentleman asking what he can do to help is better than him asking what he is doing "wrong", or HE may start thing something is wrong with him in bed a start having issues himself.  I think it's best to not go the something's wrong with either party and keep it more positive.

You are correct though, women for the most part don't  get wet on demand without some sweet coaxing from our partners touch among other things!

Steph XO

Yes it came off the wrong way, as I was irritated by the assumption that women have something wrong with them if they can't get wet.  All great points Steph!  I suppose I'm lucky I don't usually have issues in this area.  If all else fails there is always lube!

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All this time I thought that was the "wet" button??

i recommend applying saliva directly from your tongue to the area you want lubricated. works every time ;p

Spit works everytime, indeed

Wow, Steph, Mature GFE, you are stop on as usual. Could not have said it any better and did not try. You are a rare gem. Kelley

Steph, Mature GFE said it best. I would highly suggest lube, it does come in flavors that makes it yummy. A bit more better than spit in my opinion............