I love what I do. I do not consider myself to be "the baddest bitch" but I wear my dignity well...  
I know I am a gem in all this muck. I do what I do well, take pride in my skills, and I ain't too shabby to look at!
Now there comes a point when a lady has to re-evaluate their professional worth...
However, after 4 piddly reviews (all good ones, however, not bragging rights, right?) I do not feel the need  to reevaluate yet- based my skills/reviews/time etc...
In the matter of 2 days, I have had two requests for bookings for a weekend (different ones, obviously.)
And both clients made offers, of how much (since obviously this noob didn't have weekend rates posted, planned, or anticipated!) I am finding it  tad overwhelming!
Maybe I am still noobish- my civvie mind is telling me these amounts of money are INSANE-  
 and it's not that I don't feel worthy, well, perhaps not totally... Maybe humility? Self doubt?
Maybe it's because I grew up eating a LOT of Ramen noodles, if ya know what I mean, I am feeling a bit like an over-achieving hooker!! LMAO

How funny that is the exact song I had in my head as I was writing that post!

It's not easy being "on" for 12+ hours with someone you may or may not know very well.  You get tired, hungry, may feel weird about going to the bathroom, feel obligated to look good even if you want to just put on sweats, you need to be entertaining even if you just want to relax, etc.  You deserve ever dollar you make, plus more.

Before the hobby, I have existed with assholes, dicks, cunts, unappreciative, and control freaks... And some of them family. (MOST)...  For which I am not compensated, and yet criticized or (attempted to be) controlled. Needless to say, I buck.
I am not saying being on the clock 24 hrs won't be hard- but I have dealt with as a badly without any compensation. I am sure I can survive this. I will keep thinking,
"Money. Sex. Smile. Money. Sex. Smile."

-- Modified on 2/28/2014 8:06:05 PM

If not I strongly suggest it as I think some of this is best discussed among the "ladies" if you catch my drift!

Let me know if I can help in any way!

xoxo,

Steph

What I was trying to say was if I was the Guy I could not be offended if you wanted to leave my screening, contact and an itinerary with a trusted friend. It is your safety that is all that matters. Ever

I wasn't even aware there was a ladies board!
I've only been hitting the boards a week or two- and just figured out a few nights ago where the messenger worked & that I could use it (as I am not a paid member!)
Thank-you for pointing it out!

I think you would like having access. You don't have to be a paid member.

xoxo,

Steph

I think about the times the lady snored and farted in her sleep. Not throwing rocks because I am the guy your talking about. In one orifice and out the other LOL

I don't know why, I have 4 reviews, & have been posting a few weeks....
Grrrrrrr....

Not unsual to be denied the first time you ask. I think they just like messing with you some times.

I'm in a different part of the country, so YMMV.  
Looking at your pictures, I see a lovely lady.  
Looking at your reviews, I see satisfied guys.
Looking at your rates, I think you are too low.  

Women who charge insane rates do so for one reason and one reason only... because they CAN. The more money I made at a regular job, the higher my rate was in the hobby, because I simply did not need the money as bad to take any less. It's not rocket science. Those dependent only on this business are victims of the market... others, are not. I would have starved to death in my area if I needed to even see 3 or 4 guys a week... just the facts.