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Posted By: Durhamdrew
Re: Today I Learned. Marie has a blog with pics ... maybe they didnt know?
He asked if I could send him pictures after telling me how much he enjoyed my blog. I guess you can't please everyone

As many of you know, I have a picture blog I keep relatively current. I try to keep it interesting by posing in different rooms in my home, outside, in my cars, on my motorcycle, on my decks, in rollerblades.....the list goes on. I even show my face.

So why are men always asking me to send them pictures? What are they wanting to see that I haven't posted already? It's not like I have three mysterious fuzzy pictures or pictures by a photographer that over does it on photo-shop and it's not clear what I really look like. Why this request?

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Hey Marie, I wish I had a glib answer for you.  From my perspective I don't understand why that is always happening, your photos reveal more than enough about your appearance for a potential new client.  I can think of two reasons in general for pic requests, one is that someone wants more graphic/revealing pics than what is being posted (or is just a picture collector).  And two, if there is a concern about possible fake photos then a request for a selfie taken in such a way as to demonstrate the pics are really the same person who is posting them in their advertising/site.  Your pics are plenty revealing, and with your long history there is no question about the veracity of your pics.  So I am puzzled why you are getting those requests, but maybe someone else will think of something I have missed.

too lazy to search out your blog/

This last guy even stated that he liked my blog. I'll be honest....It was kind of insulting.  

Normally if someone asks if I have any pictures, I'll direct them to my blog. I can see where it would be easy to overlook. As far as I know, not too many ladies do picture blogs.

Posted By: Durhamdrew
Re: Today I Learned. Marie has a blog with pics ... maybe they didnt know?
He asked if I could send him pictures after telling me how much he enjoyed my blog. I guess you can't please everyone

I for one am guilty of asking for pics when I first started in the hobby, to me I felt more of a connection with the provider if  I asked for a pic and she sent me one, it felt personnel. I recieved almost too much attention from two of them and it started feeling like a girlfriend situation. I do not ask for pics anymore, I have had a provider send me a pic as a thank you, and I have enjoyed that. Just my .2

There are tons of them. They just want the attention, and the notch under their belt that another girl sent them a selfie. They just like looking through their phones knowing that some hottie sent a selfie directly to them. Just ignore it and delete it. Those guys are not going to book, I've trial & errored this the first three years of my career, they never book. Even if one does book, it's not worth the energy to entertain any of those guys.

I just don't even respond, I don't even say no, I don't question why they would even ask, I literally just block the email and trash it. Then I never have to deal with them again. Or the phone number or whatever, I don't have a phone number listed, but when I did I noticed I got a lot more picture requests.

It took me awhile to learn this, even though I never sent out the pictures I wasted the energy saying no. And then trying to explain why not. It's just pointless, because they are picture collectors, and that's all they are. They want another notch under their belt - and to show it off to theeir friends.

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I'm sure there are many reasons.  Some men don't believe that you are as attractive as you are in your published photos. That providers edit, alter, filter and manipulate their photos is common practice and knowledge. Even using photographers who will make the photo image unrecognizable as the actual provider is standard for some providers. Some of us have had the misfortune of booking a provider who looks dramatically different from her photos when we meet her. Most of us believe that a selfie isn't able to be manipulated haha.

 Some of us want that extra personal touch that makes us feel special. That you give something to me above what others receive means I am special. It's an ego stroke.

 Many providers choose to not make their face public and for some of us face attractiveness matters an awful lot. While the lady may not want her face published she might not be adverse to sharing a selfie privately.  
 
 You just keep on being your smoking hot wonderful you.

So they're mostly picture collectors.  

It's very easy to use an old selfie and manipulate the data to make it from now. Screenshot, crop, send. And there are plenty of apps out there to alter selfies almost seamlessly.

As I also said, maybe one might book, but most of them don't.

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You def share plenty. Have nothing to hide. Anyone asking for more pictures def just collecting or just cause they don't believe how beautiful you are 😘

any of the guys had the awesome pleasure of seeing you they wouldn't need pics.  Don't know why the constant asking for  pics.  Without reservation Marie...you are so genuine, down-to-earth, funny, smart, articulate and as sexy and hot as can be.  I have been lucky enough to see you many times and all I have to do is close my eyes and remember!   Who the f*%K needs Viagra with that wonderful vision!

Thank you for the insight as well as the very flattering comments. You all are so sweet!

I never considered picture collecting. I bet that is what was going on....he had zero references

You all are the best!

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