've been involved in the P4P scene since the 50's (yeah I'm old) but it was a pretty tawdry scene until the internet,escorts and sites like TER came along.  Then I was able to form lasting relationships with ladies, many of them for years, that I really started to enjoy the hobby

The mental connection

I've never been one for a qv or even one for an hour or less, so the ladies who have extra time (compensated time) to arouse the area between the ears are most appreciated.  There is just something special about having a mental connection to a personality that leads to a much more intimate physical connection.

I can recall one of whom we wined and dined in a fine restaurant one evening, had some wonderful conversations, departed in the parking lot, and later met for an extended date a couple of weeks later.  That was truly some of the best and most physical and emotional connection ever!

Being part of a group of people that shares similar opinions, if not the same point of view, on that thing it is that we do. A group that allows us to hobby safer than ever, in turn providing more options for us all.

I know what I am and what I am doing. I like a lady that is comfortable with herself and can let me be comfortable around her. Make me believe that you enjoy our time together.

In real life, when dealing with Civvie guys, I suppose I am more or less not very aggressive (chasing guys), so mainly, I don't pursue, and the kind of guys who pursue me... In the end, seem to lack respect, boundaries, do shit-tons of NCNS to the end of being "cut-off." I have had civvie guys forget birthdays, lack a gift, poor excuses, or just don't bother to show up when we make plans... Just plain, no respect.

Admittedly, perhaps, I have a better crowd of clients, but honestly...
I have clients who are so freaking... Above & beyond.
I can not count in the past 24 months- how many surprises....
(from expensive panties to my favorite perfume sets to fancy dinners out, to places I've never been!) gift cards, of course envelopes, and deposits sent by regulars without me asking... and tips, again, without asking....
But it's NOT ALL DOLLARS there..... not with respect being adressed.
More respect of "time"- (I think I have had a total of ONE NCNS) better communication, respect of boundaries, sexually and otherwise...
More sincere conversations-

And in general, better treatment from clients than civvie guys.... To the end of...
I have even fired my "side-meat" (he never quite made it to boyfriend status, heh.)  
And am I bitter or looking back? Not a smidge!
Why? I always knew I deserved better than what I had put up with, but now, I fully realize I am capable of demanding better treatment, and it almost seems as though I am getting more rewards for it.
Rewards?..... Or is it just respect?

Hell if I know! At any rate....
I thank all of you, who have treated me so very well. You will always be welcome into my arms (and other body parts!)
I always knew how to "twerk it" the way I do, a natural born freak lol, but now, I give it to men who justly deserve it.  
The ones who respect me more than the ones who have been put on my civvie "blacklist" for good reason... Mostly... a sore lack... of RESPECT.

To my respectful guys,
YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!

Foxy

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