3 recent tries here with a hotel suite, $ gift card, tip included up front, and on my best behavior for 2 hours with well reviewed providers hoping/asking for someone to try to look their best (like in their ads) and show (or fake) some appreciation.

Not looking for a super model or some crazy porn/fetish experience, but felt like I was just a stop interrupting a trip to the mall or a movie. The "deed" was "as reviewed" (so no bad reviews) but I'd trade a dirty acronym for a nice dress or sincere "thanks" afterwards - guess that is too much to ask and being nice doesn't help.

Call me a sucker and to save my time/$. Any disagreements or suggestions?

however there are people (both men and women) out there that do not understand the value of a sincere thank you and dressing to impress.  I personally follow up all my appointments with a thank you, because I am sincerely thankful that they chose to spend time with me.  Now there are times when that thank you note does not include a line about meeting again; because its possible that we didn't connect on any level...and that happens to everyone at one time or another; but it doesn't negate the fact that I am still thankful for the meeting.

As far as feeling like you are interrupting daily life, did you book at the last minute?  Perhaps the provider was torn between the potential income and what they were currently doing.  That is a reason that I do not accept last minute appointments (less than 24 hours).  I want to make sure that I am in a mental and physical state to be in the moment with the client...NOT thinking about the grocery shopping or errands I have to do later.

Of course its always disappointing to have an experience like that; but don't get discouraged.  Not every experience is like that.  Chin up and best of luck next time

"Well reviewed" can cover a lot of different attributes. If a dress and a thank you card are what matters, you need to read the actual reviews looking for mention of those types of things. And a wardrobe request before your date wouldn't hurt. Although those things don't matter to me, if I read any hint of her going through the motions, I move on.

Being courteous and respectful is always right, IMO because it is its own reward, not a means to an end.

It is hard to get inside your head.  I see your not happy with the service you received but I do not really understand what you are looking for fully.

You can, when you contact a provider, ask certain questions, talk about your preferences.  Lets say something like,  "do you have a little black dress that you can wear?'   You could even ask if she is GFE or PSE.  There is a difference.  Reading her website usually gets you a good feel also,  some fellas dont read the fine print but its full of insights.  Especially things like the Q&A.  

I dont know if I want to hear thanks at the end of a date.  "You were fun " is always nice.  But being a nice guy does NOT mean you will finish last.  You just got to maybe ask a few more legal questions.  

Hope that helps

I'm with you on this one Road. Both making the proper request and doing TER research. Will get you way ahead of the game.  Now sadly, I have had more then a few "Well Reviewed" ladies say that they would have said dress or lingerie. Then of course, when you get there. They aren't wearing it or come up with some lame duck excuse for why they don't have it.

Now depending on the provider and if I have seen the provider before. Then, I might just go ahead and purchase the piece of lingerie that I wanted to see them wear. Chances are that I will be seeing this provider again. As, I always like to take care of those providers who. Truly take the time and effort to make me feel special. To give me the GFE experience in more then just one manner. Music, candle light, taking the time to correspond and truly get to know me. If I'm going to be handing out large quantities of cash. I'd just assume that I am getting more then just a couple of Bangs for my buck as it were.

To clarify: Experience was not bad (this hobby is all good). Ladies did their job and I'm sure they have many happy customers. This My Bad - false expectations despite the TER/website research and a wasteful approach. My intent here is confirmation (of my poor execution), suggestions to improve (like be very specific), and to see if there are others (like Emma) who may appreciate a nice gesture.

If there is a next time here: "I require you wear a black Ralph Lauren cocktail dress, leather black closed toe heels , and a matching silk thong. If you want a gift card and tip, please plan on sending a thank-you after" or will just plan on some action in half the time and a third of the cost (makes it easier).

Appreciate the feedback. Mean gets you nothing - so always be nice.

...... dunno what to say other than sorry your kindness/appreciation wasn't as reciprocated.

As she's going out the door. Believe me she'll call back with a thanks,  LOL

I learned this from a guy who used to say to his SO...."Get in the truck, biotch!"