There's music for sex, for love making and for fukng. Even then there are a ton of choices!
House, drum and bass, NIN, skinny puppy, classic rock, the doors, Stephen wolfe, def leopard, 80's rock, 90's alternative, Poe, hole, jambands like phish, punk, pennywise, the Ramones, metal, pantera to slipknot... My music tastes are all over the place, I could go on and on.
I tend to go for Spotify: sexy beats, chill out, funky heavy bluesy, chill step, they seem to make good background that everyone can enjoy.