This one is for the guys and gals.  What is your preference when it comes to DATY?  Do you really enjoy it or do you just go through the motions?

As for me, I LOVE DATY!  Like most men I think I perform DATY pretty well but there is always room for improvement.  Something about having legs around your head and tasting that sweet spot..mmmmm I think I could go for a great tongue workout right now...lol

Let your preferences be known.

Yes, yes, yes. DATY is an essential part of the experience for me. I like to go for some G spot stimulation or light anal fingering during DATY. Not every provider is into it, but those who are usually have some pretty convincing orgasms.

Love it. Hopefully she will climax but I know some don't but I still love to do it.
The best is when she has a intense O that leaves her shivering.  Amazing to touch or kiss her thigh when she is left quivering.

69 is also a favorite of mine, love to start a session that way.

If she is a liking it, I could stay for a very long time.

Just like with intercourse I like a mix of soft,slow & gentle and fast,hard & crazy lol. I don't want someone attacking my clit and surroundings the whole time BUT little flickers/light licking only isn't going to do too much either (don't lick it like you're afraid of it).  The hood of my clit is not a penis please don't suck on it like one, most of the nerves that give me pleasure are not in there. Spit: spitting on my vagina is not sexy and I don't care what anyone says but spit is not good lube, only way to know you're doing a good job and that wetness is really me and NOT your spit is to not slobber all over my vagina.  I'm more aroused with external play (FIV/fingering does nothing for me) and I like breaks of massaging & kissing my mound too (also just "twiddling"/massaging my clit and inner lips also).