Now I dont want to offend anyone...but I would like to know a guys point of view...or the psychology of why????   Ok get the visual...a beautiful playboy material blonde.... and her boyfriend dumps her for a 300 pd ugly cow?????  Why????....this has happened many times and the girls cant understand the why?  behind it....can you guys give us the 411

Well, I can't say I have ever dumped anyone for a 300lb. cow...but, I have down graded companions many times because the ex felt that sex was a bargaining chip (maybe this was not the situation…but albeit many females will not admit it if it is). The minute that sex becomes a control issue, I personally will down grade to have my needs filled without being held hostage. It is so simple, why can girls (at least many I've let move in!) figure it out.
P.S. This is not coming from a below average penis male...or just an uneducated guy...and yet the game continues even for me.
P.S.S Not intended to piss anyone off, is solely my point of view which will likely have no influence on your daily outcomes.

I really dont understand why that would happen either. Personality maybe???

Just a stab in the dark but perhaps the heavy chick is loaded ($$$$) but desparate so she'll be more tolerable to the guy for the sake having a guy in her life and will turn a blind eye if he plays the field with lithe playmate types. Who knows. BTW, you're looking good Avery. Ever consider a tour of Wilmington or Jacksonville...I've got a special lighthouse I'd like to show you!

Girls should not be allowed to drink merlot all night then make a post!  LOL  I wish I could delete that post.  I hope I didnt offend anyone.

While it might happen every now and then, it must be rare. But when it does happen, I'll bet the heavy gal is loaded($$$$) and probably a little desparate and will put up with a guy for the sake of having companionship. Once a guy has a taste for playboy like material, no 2-ton heffer is going to be the same. The guy will use the fat chick for money and continue to feast on the playmate. BTW, Avery, very nice website. Have you ever considered touring the Wilmington Area?

Actually I thought it was a good question. Have another Merlot. LOL

Could be many reasons:  attitude, personality, the way the guy (or girl) is being treated, actions, etc.  The list is long.  Maybe you have read this somewhere ( i have and thought it was funny)  " I don't care how HOT she is somewhere somebody is sick of her shit".  Don't take that wrong anybody...same can be said for a guy.  Now why somebody that has the looks and skills to nab Playboy material would go after a cow (you said) is beyond me, but things aren't always what they seem to be on the surface.  That's just an opinion now....ok.  Personally, on a 1-10 scale would much rather be with an 7 body with a 10 personality than some hottie 10 that's a total bitch...or a 10 that's been told she is a 10 so long that's all she's got going for her.  Again, just an opinion & you know what those are like.  Everybody has one.

well thank you everyone for all your comments and your private emails on this subject.  I am now well informed.  As I said...I never wanted to offend anyone....and every one deserves to be loved no matter what they look like....but alot of ladies that are attractive get so upset when their man cheats on them or dumps them for another woman that is much less attractive...and they alllllll   ask why?

Well, it's easy to understand. Some guys just like fat women.  I don't understand it but that's just the truth.  Go to your favorite restaurant, Waffle House is the best one to try, and you will see many slender decent looking guys escorting a whopper lady.  It reminds me of the story about how a motor scooter is like a fat girl.  Both of them are fun to ride but you wouldn't want your buddies to see you on either of them.

That's OK, we all do that at times.  

Beauty is in the beholder.  Sometimes the sexiest looking woman can be ugly when the personality and attitude are so poor.  It's not just all about the looks, at least not to me.

that's true some men do prefer plus size women...but I think psychology 101....the man is insecure with no self esteem or confidence.  I think he feels she will feel so (grateful) that he wants her that she will do anything for him or to keep him.  And he feels safe that she wont cheat on him or ever leave him.  just my 2 pennies

Is it possible, the drop dead gorgeous, Playboy quality lady has a personality that stops at drop dead? And is it possible the not so attractive lady, who may not really be that heavy, has personality to burn?  Some very attractive ladies (and I guess men too) are so consumed with themselves, they lose site of the total picture and think it begins and ends with good looks.  It doesn't, a fine mind and a fun personality can make an average lady very attractive.

Some say they have better personalities...others say the sex is fun or even better.   But if the answer is bigger ladies are more fun in BED then I guess it has nothing to do with their personalites!!  What if a very large woman lost all her weight would she no longer have a good personality?  And would she no longer be good in Bed?

Relationships are fickle things.  I think it probably has a lot to do with who the guy feels comfortable with.  If your with someone that is very attractive and you have great pressure to be a superhuman great guy all the time, it can wear on you to the point that you'll cling to the first person that you feel that you can be yourself around.

I don't know about others, but for me there is a certain point of attractiveness that reaches datable and as long as a girl passes that level it all comes down to compatability.  So in my case a 6 looks = 10 looks for dating, but I wouldn't even consider a 5 or less.