Is the biggest one discussing donations on the phone or talking about sex?
It's hard to tell with some girls who are independent.

Not sure man, you gotta be careful though, there's a crazy world out there,  there's blood everywhere, I mean, most of it is inside people's bodies but still... the horror!!!!!

Don't discuss sex or money over the phone?

Kind of like - Dont discuss politics or religion at a party.

Good answer Sphinxnc!

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT! Your answer was short and simple, just like ME.......allegedly.....

How do you handle when a provider doesn't post rates on their web sites and ask them to call you to find out?

I tell you what I do. I don't call to set up anything.

Always wondered how anyone handles this situation?

It's elementary, my dear Watson, you negotiate escort service rates, not sex rates, ta da!

   With a handle like the one you chose and the deft question WOWZA where o where does one actually choose to begin?????

   Are you trying to hint a lack of love to the indy gals? I just want to say on the record, any of you been waiting for me to do that???  LOL I know I know probably nobody but it is my story and Imma sticking right to it!

    I want to state for the record I have had MANY MANY MANY MANY toe-curling spank your momma so damn good experiences with independent gals in the hobby.

    Hold your johnson's gents, and gently stroke your biscuit ladies!!!!!! had to use biscuit cause I  heard that on Honey Boo Boo the other night. What is our world coming too, Honey Boo Boo and Impractical Joksters(on tonight, whooohhoooo!)

    I also want to state for the record I have had MANY MANY MANY MANY toe-curling, go spank your momma so damn good experiences with agency gals! DUDE women are women, ya feeling me, don't taise me bra! See bra is like more like me being a California dude, can't you imagine I am a surfer dude? You know Tall, ripped, tan, flowing locks....Opps NOT!!!! Great thing is there is a place for short and cute and a real good fella! Thank goodness for dat! Who needs hair??? Probably better than imagining me in my backless leather chaps! Man that was a bad look for me let me tell yas!

 So Alphie, what is it all about? It is about having fun but doing the best one can to be smart about it! This site has nuggets of gold if one knows how to mine it! Mine away my hobby brother!

  You kinda new to the hobby, grasshoopaaa? If so if you do not have one GET A VIP MEMBERSHIP or write a couple of reviews and get ya bad self some VIP time on them! Then read, can ya read? You still reading this It MIGHT do you some good, show you how to get the wheat without the shaft, might be able to get you to be able to find the creme-da-la-creme and leave the hustlers to the idiots who know no better!

  And remember this friend, you get what you pay for. You get that VIP membership and read through those reviews and one gal in particular has 85 OUTSTANDING reviews(anyone take a guess of whom I am referring to???) Heck it might be 86 now BUT she is great! A gal who visits from NY from time to time GREAT! One who is FUN, HOLY SMOKES what a gal!

   There are just SO MANY! I can't name all of them and am leaving very deserving GREAT gals out but dude go see the list of gals I have reviewed! That list proves for the record once again, I am the luckiest fella in the whole world, heck in the history of the world to have been so fortunate to have been able to spend one minute with the quality of women I have gotten intimate with in the hobby!

   Promise you get them in a room, do a line up and ask who got to spend intimate with this crew of female all-stars and I bet I would not be the first guy chosen out of the line-up! I have won the hobby lottery a million times over.

   And the agencies, OMGoodness, there are some great agencies out there, I have used Sexy By Raven but I swear if I won the lottery I could go buy an island and just have Raven put her gals on a regular visit. I just got not enough time and way not enough money. And no fricking Christmas bonus this year! This one gal I have not seen who works with Raven is on the list! WHEW! Ok honest about 5, I have not seen yet, maybe 10!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  Anyway, I have rambled once again, go figure! What I am trying to say is you might get better results by asking different questions! maybe this, "What do I need to do to have the greatest experience I could possibly ever have?" Ya feelin me bra? Ok time for me to get back to California Dreaming! Amazing where one can go with an active imagination!

 I Concur as usual!

 Shifterp OUT!

Good question, one thing you can do is read the reviews. I have not had a VIP for a bit but if I remember right there is a section there for what the rate is.

Other thing is if you buddy up with a couple of the fellas in the hobby maybe they have seen the gal and know the donation asked for.

Shifterp OUT!

Until recently....oh that's right I have only been hobbying since this summer.....I only perused P411, TER and established agencies (local).  It became apparent very early that a provider's web presences generates reviews and reviews are key to me.  Not the bible because reviewers have penises and egos but the trends are evident.  Anyway, recently I have decided to expand into this BP thing since so many reviews seem to begin with, 'I'd been watching sexy sue on BP for sometime and decided to TOFTT'.  Shifter's story short (sorry had to do that) I am ALWAYS compensating a lady for her time and never anything else.  When I go to a meeting with someone I have never met but have read some reviews there are some suspicions that do not have to be considered, as usual, YMMV because mine sure has.  There is some excitement about meeting with a provider that is new or transient or being "turned out" but IMHO top shelf (TER, P411) providers are da butter.  Any other route is just me wanting to punish myself for having too much money and needing to piss some away to stir the weak economy.  I am just writing it all off as a business expense anyway....LMFAO.

.....my thing is until i've screened/verified you I like talking about sex and I also like talking about money just not in the same conversation  .  

Actually....even after i've screened/verified you I don't like discussing "what you get for $$$".
I figure or hope you've looked at my reviews or my site or my TER profile or preferably all 3 BEFORE even contacting me.  

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I stare at it for about 10 minutes, read it a few times, stare at it some more and burst out laughing. I save it to my folder of funnies. )))

Exactly......stated very well.  The old adage, 'if you have to ask then you can't afford it'.  This leans to emotional as well as financial elements.  IMO ...... and I have a lot of them.

Posted By: TrulyMsMocha

.....my thing is until i've screened/verified you I like talking about sex and I also like talking about money just not in the same conversation  .  

Actually....even after i've screened/verified you I don't like discussing "what you get for $$$".
I figure or hope you've looked at my reviews or my site or my TER profile or preferably all 3 BEFORE even contacting me.  

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Well I figure what can be said in 10 words can always be bloviated into 100!!!

I Concur!!

Shifterp Out!!

Wankers and time wasters love to call us up and talk all about sex for interminable hours, and they never fail to ask if we have any pics. They also want to know if we do half hours, and will we take less for more. Bwahahahaha!

Now I see why you never answer my emails.