I've been thinking about getting into the hobby for awhile now and I want to do it the right way. I was going to do the P411 route but can't risk giving out too much info given my profession (NOT LE). I am particularly looking for light fetish friendly ladies who are into flirting, foot and leg worship with accompanying oral/face-sitting. I am not interested in intercourse/FS. Please enlighten me on other ways to become verified as i very much want both parties to be comfortable. I am located in Raleigh and yes, I have read the newbie FAQ and discussion boards. PM's are preferred.  

you have a few options:
- do your research and find a newbie friendly lady and she can be your "sponsor" when you meet other ladies
- contact Gina at P411, they have various methods to verify you
Once a few ladies OK you and/or you have your P411 account set up, you will be off and enjoying the hobby
Be safe and have fun!

To providing the info she requests.  Once you have a well reviewed lady to start with who will back you up, the other ladies will come.  Get 2 or 3 under your experience and you should be able to branch off from there given that they provide a positive reference for you.

Thanks to both of you for the feedback. I appreciate your willingness to share your advice.

Just a follow-up on my previous post.  I was able to become verified at P411 using other information that I was comfortable giving a 3rd party.  The process was direct, quick and appropriate. Just sharing my experience for others who may be in my situation or just curious.