Buyer beware,...Like Nancy used to say, Just say no!
I tried to post this as a review but it was denied. Hopefully they will allow this as a post. It cost me $200. I wasn't robbed but the atmosphere was clearly dangerous. Be careful out there.
The post was of a very pretty, petite asian woman, with huge fake breasts who advertised for a Balinese Tantra session. Years ago, in another city I had a favorite that looked a lot like her and she gave an amazing FBSM. I thought something like that sounded good. I call but no one picks up. She texted back in 5 minutes from the same number, 210 area code. I asked some questions she seemed legit, so I moved forward with making an appointment. We texted back and forth a few times and I told her I would be late, she said that is fine.
I arrived and texted that I was out front. Minutes go by, then I receive a photo of a pretty black women with big, fake boobs in lingerie but not the Asian woman from the ad. I'm confused. She texts, "did you get my photo?" I said yes but where was the girl from the ad? No reply. Then another text, "can you give me a few minutes, baby?" I should've left then...but I was horny AND reminiscing about my former friend and as we know, providers being late isn't exactly out of the ordinary. 5 minutes goes by and another text, "ready!"
I knock on the door and a young, fit black woman opens the door. I walk in and she closes the door and it's pitch black. I can't see anything. She gives me a hug and grabs my crotch. (LE check). She says follow me and it's still pitch black. She takes me to a bedroom and closes the door. Gives me a short, pathetic hug. The room is filthy. There is no massage table to be seen, the bed is unmade and looks disheveled. There is laundry scattered on the floor and a closet with nothing in it. Basically, all I could think of was that this was like a low income brothel/crack house. She is pretty, athletic build, big fake boobs, tattoos all over and looked like she had just recently woken up. I'm thinking to myself that she is probably a stripper trying to make extra dough. She won't look at me. I'm nervous and she's clearly nervous as well. Something seems wrong. She says, "you can get comfortable". I had to pee after my drive, so I ask to go to the bathroom both so I can pee and decide what the hell I'm getting myself into.
She takes me out of the bedroom into the pitch black again. Shows me to the bathroom and I can't see anything, as my eyes adjust I'm startled by someone actually in the bathroom! They walk by me and say hello. I'm trying to find a light but can't because my eyes haven't adjusted yet. I finally find the light switch and shut the door to pee. I stand there thinking I could easily be robbed. I cannot see anything but I can hear a man's voice outside in the apartment and there appears to be another woman working there; that's 3 to 1. I decided I needed to leave.
I walked back into the room and tell the woman, "keep the money, I'm leaving." She looks at me surprised, she asks why, then a pause and then says, "ok". I walked as fast as I could with my senses tingling to get through the pitch black apartment. The door opens and she slams it behind me. I got in my car and took off out of the parking lot.
I'm an idiot. Even with my many years doing this, my wrong head lead me astray. The bottom line here is that I was not robbed AND I might've gotten an amazing session if I had decided to stay, but I wasn't willing to take my clothes off. Too many bad things could've happened and I wasn't willing to be on the evening news.
Maybe I'm paranoid and maybe another man or woman would've tried to get the money back but I was going to spend the money anyway, so I just left with everything in tact and a bruised ego.
Buyer beware.
I've been tricked, scammed, ripped off..... It happens to the best of us. The last time it happened to me was last year. Last year was my 18th year in the hobby. Life is full of "I should have known better" situations. It never stops
Learn from your mistake, but most of all, be grateful you weren't stabbed, beat up, raped (it happens to men too) or killed. You were lucky!
Thank you for sharing. Your story will help others
And you are a very lucky man..
You have been doing this long enough to know better!!
Come on dude!!
You made a wise decision to bolt! Bad decision to walk into total darkness first! There could have been a shiv, or concussion lurking therein
( Give that little head a good talking to!!! LOL
Buyer beware,...Like Nancy used to say, Just say no!
Seriously you could of gotten yourself into a really horrific situation. I had a friend/client who about 15 years ago went to see a girl. He went to her motel, a super 8 or something and when he went up. A guy was in the bathroom. Once that door closed and locked the guy stepped out of the bathroom and my friend nearly lost his marbles. He is a big guy so he doesn't scare easily when it comes to physical confrontations. The girl was there as well, she was one that let him in but it all went further downhill from there.
Long story short they tried to get his money and his cards and he put up a fight and ended up getting stabbed. Maybe he should of just handed it over, I surely would of but he was more angry at first than scared. The guy stabbed him, the girl just stood there yelling get him get him. They got his wallet , he stumbled out of the room and he ran to his car and to the ER. He made it out just fine with some stitches, a police report and some crazy story to tell his future providers.
Yes this was off of BP. Maybe even CL. Can't recall which one he said he called the girl off of. He is lucky that guy didn't follow him to his car. They left the hotel and weren't able to be found. Room was in someone else's name that had checked out that morning. These people must of broke in. Again I don't know those details.
Next time THINK. If it smells off , LOOKS off, walk away. But you know this.
Just think of it, if you went out to eat and ordered a T-bone steak, but your waitress brought you a cheeseburger still wrapped in the McDonalds paper you would be pissed ... right? It's the exact same thing in P4P and the reason these pimps and providers continue to do it ... is because guys continue to allow it.
That said, I'm glad you trusted your gut and got the hell out of there because it sounds like you were going to get robbed. It was a wise move to tell her to keep the money because I'm sure that allowed you to leave.
..a polite thanks for the time and out the door. I've been pretty fortunate over the years, and while it has rarely happened, I've never regretted walking out....
I wouldn't feel bad, happens to more of us than you realize! Had a similiar experience not long ago in Columbus Ohio. Replied to an ad for FBSM by an attractive provider. Get to the house, am met by some "assistant", never see the woman, and am led to some dark basement and told to get comfortable?
I got the same "spidy sense" of dread that you did, although I never met/heard another person, after a few minutes started wondering, WFT? Walked up the basement steps and LEFT. Luckly I had not paid, so my experience wasn't as costly as yours, but good for you for not sticking around! All the best.
Hmmm... sorry this happened to you but remember "you get what you pay for" I am sorry but you go cheap you get cheap! Cheap location, cheap looks, cheap service. An on top of that you are at high risk to get robbed and to get in trouble, for what, just to save a couple hundreds? At the end you wasted your money!
Use it as a lesson.
You got out of there with the most important thing and that is your life. Money can be replace, but you only get one shot at life.