Some of us older gents remember the years when Judy Collins hit "Both Sides Now" defined the peace era of our generation.  Listening to that song also made me think of the ladies and gents in this hobby.  We tend to see everything from out side, but it takes two to tango, so let's think of "both sides now."  
   
 From the gent perspective: Ladies photos reveal much, but angles and Photoshop can do wonders to some but most are honest.  We also know that most fudge their ages to the young side - which is okay - but some of us truly prefer maturity.  Personalities are sometimes revealed on the discussion boards, and reviews have to be read through filtered lens.  Sometimes we know a bad review is not a true indication of the lady, but just mismatched personalities.  Yes, the best sex organ is between the ears, and our own expectations are formed before we schedule a meeting.  Many of us prefer enjoying longer dates and truly connecting, and many of you are much better than "quickie" providers.  
   
 On the ladies side: it truly is known to many of us the risks that you take.  Sometimes you know even less about the client, and therefore it is understandable when you say, "NO!"  There are good gentlemen and there are others, and you've probably seen both and could write a book on great and not-so-good experiences.  
   
 So, as a new week gets started and new experiences lie ahead, here's a big SHOUT OUT to the truly fantastic ladies that I've fortunately met in the past.  Here's to wishing you a wonderful and safe week!