Several years ago I ran into a great provider that did bondassage and it blew my mind. That provider has moved on and I am looking for someone around Charlotte that knows bondassage. If I can't find that I would be interested in "Vanilla" Dominatrix or something like that. Any help would be great.

if you're willing to travel to Greenville SC there is a bond assuage practitioner there.  See Eros.com.  I've sessioned with her twice and had a great time each visit.

is it Ruby ?????

Yes

That is really the only one I have found around here. Thanks for the input and is it worth me driving from Charlotte?

I would

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