I will be making a fast visit into Raleigh on business, flying in on May 31st and leaving June 2nd. I will be staying at an upscale hotel. Because of the fact that all of us on this assignment are coming in from different cities and countries (Las Vegas, Nashville, LA, London, South Africa, etc) we will be working probably 14 hour days plus so I will only have late evenings available.
I am looking for advice as to an upscale provider who can be available late nights. Very slim preferred and I prefer GFE or PSE, perhaps with multi hour availability. Because I am only a lowly standard member, please respond herein or email [email protected].I have responded negatively to this kind of post in the past and have been taken to task for it, but I stick by my story. This is not the way to look for a provider. And I get annoyed when guys ask other people to do their homework for them.
First of all, one tab over is the Carolina Ad Board where you will find a whole bunch of ads for the type you describe, in the time frame that you list, right at the top of the page.
Second of all, you are going to spend $$$ on a provider but can't afford 20 or 30 bucks (whatever it is) for a VIP membership? Then you get to do a search for EXACTLY what you want, and read the juicy details of all the girls that come up.
Third and final, you certainly might get a few hits from your post because not every guy is as pissy as I am, and because any girl in the neighborhood who happens to read your post might drop you a line - but the odds that the exact girl you are looking for happens to be trolling the board for business at exactly the right moment are pretty slim. You are casting an 8 foot net into the Pacific Ocean.
Anyway, good luck with that.
To type out that whole, entire, pissy rant, you could have saved 2 minutes of your life, and instead either given a recommendation, or ignored the post and went about your business. I mean seriously.
Perhaps, like a lot of people that ask for recommendations on the boards, it isn't about them being cheap or lazy, (and if so who really cares.. see my above recommendation for these posts) but maybe... just maybe... he is looking for a recommendation from someone who has firsthand experience with such a provider?
Reading reviews is all well and good, but IMO there is something to be said for other gentlemen giving a personal recommendation based on their own experience with the lady. Perhaps.... the poster isn't a board whore and isn't online 24/7 like other people here, to read ads. Perhaps.... the poster is married/attached, has to be careful with purchases, and isn't aware of other ways to pay for VIP with outright using his credit card?
It's really sad that someone can't just jump online to TER real quick, a question, ask for a recommendation, etc, without being crucified. Same thing when someone asks a question under an alias and is immediately called a cop or psycho. Maybe its not always about getting others to "do their homework for them", and instead its just a guy thinking that he can log in real quick because he has a life and is busy, and unfortunately for him thinks people will help him out without over analyzing everything.
The whole feeling of "community" on these boards has really gone to shit lately....
Too much bitching and drama, hell a post like the OP's is how I got started in this hobby. Luckily someone (I'm pretty sure it was you Gabby) was nice enough to come along and give me a good recomendation. Seems to be a trend other places too though, I tried putting a feeler out on another area board and got flamed myself. Did get a couple PM's but overall same BS. Has anyone noticed how many of the folks who used to post here regularly haven't posted for a while? Oh well it is what it is I guess.
I've tried to help out a lot of folks here through the years and continue to do so now.
I'm hoping that feeling of community comes back on this board.
Some of the best experiences happen through personal recommendations.
xoxo,
Steph
In my post, I give him two suggestions for finding the exact girl he is looking for on his visit. You have not done him the same courtesy, nor have any of the guys who jumped on your bandwagon. In fact, I don't see anybody at all giving him any help. Maybe he has received some private email, we don't know - but if not, the only helpful suggestions so far have come from me.
My point was not to flame the guy - do you see any insults or nasty language in my post? I stated my opinion, and even admitted that I was being pissy about it.
My POINT is not to shoot the guy for being "lazy or cheap", but to explain that it is MUCH more fruitful to search the database for reviews or check the local ad board, than to post an ISO (which by the way, TER does not allow, did you know that? If somebody reports that post, they will move it to the ISO board). Posting an ISO on a local board is random and frequently turns up no results.
And in closing, I've been a member here for more than ten years. I spend a great deal of time on the newbie board offering as much help as I can, and I have been lobbying for kinder gentler boards for as long as I can remember.
and her point and mine and Cases's is sometimes a guy wants to hear from actual people who have seen or know a lady personally.
And I just checked out your review scores and frankly I'm shocked that you seem to have some difficulty finding ladies you end up having a positive experience with. It seems you have more lack luster or BAD experiences than good ones. and as you state you've been here for more than 10 years. Having trouble researching and finding what you are looking for perhaps?
You are a valuable member of this community. That being said you made the OP's request seem unreasonable IMHO and it definitely wasn't friendly. It came across as a critical to me and obviously I'm not the only one.
Sometimes research involves asking for recommendations. And on some boards the poster get taken to task for it or worse. I'm hoping the Carolina's Board won't become one of those boards.
Here's hoping you have a great next experience yourself and post a review about it.
Steph
Been surfing sites to find a provider that i feel may enjoy my company as well as me enjoy hers...great response...you seem like a discreet, caring, classy individual!
The OP states that he will be working 14 hour days so I assume that he will be looking for an appt at 10pm or later which eliminates many and makes me giving a recommendation useless without going and checking a girls availability.
The only other requirement is "very slim" and GFE/PSE, no age, haircolor.
So personally I have no reason to respond to the OP because it is more of a "who's available" post. I'm not gonna flame the OP because he may get a response from a provider that fits the bill, he does need to be more specific or do some homework as Clarence said.
Make love not war people ! ! !
First of all, one tab over is the Carolina Ad Board where you will find a whole bunch of ads for the type you describe, in the time frame that you list, right at the top of the page.
Second of all, you are going to spend $$$ on a provider but can't afford 20 or 30 bucks (whatever it is) for a VIP membership? Then you get to do a search for EXACTLY what you want, and read the juicy details of all the girls that come up.
Third and final, you certainly might get a few hits from your post because not every guy is as pissy as I am, and because any girl in the neighborhood who happens to read your post might drop you a line - but the odds that the exact girl you are looking for happens to be trolling the board for business at exactly the right moment are pretty slim. You are casting an 8 foot net into the Pacific Ocean.
Anyway, good luck with that.
Plus add to the fact that I have just returned to the US.
I can assure you that I can afford paid membership. My decision not to is a choice I have to make.
Regards, and thanks to the ladies who have responded
Hope you find a lady and have some adult FUN!
Steph
There are a few things in this realm that annoy me, and you caught me just as my period was starting 
In truth, I realize that my post was very negative and critical, and as such, it masked the message that I was trying to deliver - that there are better and more efficient ways to search for a girl in this forum.
I'm glad that you did get responses, and I hope you have a blast while you are here, no hard feelings intended.
Get it, HAPPY ENDING!!!!
xoxo,
Steph
I am looking for advice as to an upscale provider who can be available late nights. Very slim preferred and I prefer GFE or PSE, perhaps with multi hour availability. Because I am only a lowly standard member, please respond herein or email [email protected].