So, some background information about the girl I’m seeing. She is very open minded and wants me to have a threesome with another guy (no homo) that is a total stranger that gets picked up from the street, bar, club, where ever. Now I rejected the notion at first (since I don’t want a ball-ball touching session with a stranger because it’s already awkward even when its a friend) but then I started to think that maybe I could leverage her to fulfill my fantasy, which is to have an hour long sweat marathon of pure monkey jazz session that would leave me and her sore with a provider of high caliber. So I told her I’d do it but under the condition that she fulfills my fantasy first and she agreed; but I didn’t tell her my fantasy (just said I’d tell her once I think of one) because I’m insecure about how she will react when I tell her this; won’t even dare mention I saw providers before. I just want to have a nostalgia rush of seeing a provider with the girl I care for, so it’s a win-win for both of us.

Now I come here for advice since this is the region where I indulged myself in this business. So heres the dilemma. How should I convince my open minded lady that I want to have a session with a provider. Now, I’m gonna tell her that money isn’t an issue, but I’m scared of the repercussions if this goes awry; worst case being she leaves me. Should I be subtle about it or just lay all the cards on the table? I’m at a lost on how to approach this and I really want to satisfy her and me. Also, we’re planning a road trip through the country during her break in April and I want to stop by NC to do this since I’d feel more comfortable there. So I have a while to convince her. Any advice on this from you men who were successful at this or you nice ladies would be appreciated.

TL;DR Trying to convince my hot grillfiend to have a awesome massively sweaty hour long session with a provider. Wut do?

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