What is the best way to get references or pre-screened?  I know some providers require it and I am new to the hobby.  Would drinks before a date be recommended?  Any helpful tips to meeting a sexy provider would be nice.

There are some providers that make it known they are newbie friendly.

What I did way back when was I joined a site called Preferred411. They check out your info
and lots of the gals will take that you are a member there as a reference. There is
also a site called DateCheck that works the same.

If you are extremely nervous if you have a couple of drinks it might help you. I am one of those recovering people and in May it will be 28 years. What I am getting at is if I did that it would likely lead to DISASTER.......so for me I got to find a way to get around those jitters some other way. Maybe I ought to try TM, maybe yogart, uh I mean yoga!  hehe

As far as tips on meeting a sexy provider goes this board here is FULL of them! Hang out here and you will find lots of really sexy smart helpful guys and some nice gals too!!!!!!!  LOL

Seriously, if you hang here, lots of us hang around and chit chat from time to time and people get a feel for you that could be quite helpful.

Becoming a paid member here might be a good idea. You can read up on reviews and can look for the kind of gal you want to share some time and companionship with. Being a basic member helps but is not as detailed as to what you can find out with a paid membership.

Anyway, lots of really great people hang out here and will be as generous with helping you out as they can.

If you take your time and research before you take the leap you can find some of the best experiences you have ever imagined were possible can be yours.

Good luck, carry on!

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!