You apparently didn't receive it. Or the next email I sent making sure you got the first one. But I love how the few rare times when I have a communication issue with someone, its immediately made a public issue on the board. I'm not in the habit of blowing people off for no good reason. I did receive your email this morning, so obviously no, you never got mine last week. I'm just getting a chance to get online, and was going to respond to your email from this morning with my apologies that you didn't get my messages last week, but low and behold here we are! And for the record, I'm on the boards every single day. I just have not felt like posting pictures, or have needed attention and felt a need to post. Thank you for changing that though today!
xo
I recently saw, on another board, where a very well reviewed provider was coming to a nearby location. I loved the pics on this lady and was really excited she was coming. I e-mailed her very early on (a couple weeks ahead), she replied with the infor she needed and I supplied it. I also gave her my p411 info. As time went by, I never got a notice that she reviewed my profile, even thought it was accessed by someone unknown to me and who is a thousand miles away. I also sent another email this past Sunday asking if she was still coming, and no answer. I checked her website today, and her trip is no longer listed on her calendar.
So, today is appt day and no reply. I sent an email just a moment ago telling her how disappointed I am that she did not make the trip. I also asked if I was "screened out" for any reason (age?) so that I wouldn't bother her in the future. Also, this provider almost always posted a pic regularly on this forum and I haven't seen any in a while. Hope all is well.
Anyway, is it common practice not to notify us when plans change?
you cant lump all the ladies into the same pot. Every one has a different business plan. Lets assume that something happened in her personal life that took her out of the hobby. You say you tried several times to contact her with no response. If she is off line right now she would probably get back to you when things straighted out. If she is just simply ignoring you and as you say because of your age then write her off and move on. There are a lot of fish in this ocean. If a lady is not into seeing you for what ever reason then it is better than having a so so experience.
imho sometimes you boys assume way too much and you know what they say about the word assume.
You apparently didn't receive it. Or the next email I sent making sure you got the first one. But I love how the few rare times when I have a communication issue with someone, its immediately made a public issue on the board. I'm not in the habit of blowing people off for no good reason. I did receive your email this morning, so obviously no, you never got mine last week. I'm just getting a chance to get online, and was going to respond to your email from this morning with my apologies that you didn't get my messages last week, but low and behold here we are! And for the record, I'm on the boards every single day. I just have not felt like posting pictures, or have needed attention and felt a need to post. Thank you for changing that though today!
xo
Gotta love men who bring things to public boards instead of trying more ways to contact you. Love ya Gabs!
The poster DID NOT use anyone's name or use specifics to call anyone out. You are way off base with your comments. Maybe people should learn to use the phone once in awhile.
Is trying to call someone out and make it a big dramatic public issue as far as I'm concerned. Could I have called him? Sure. But generally people always get my emails, and only one other time have I ever had an issue with email communication. When I send someone 2 emails, and they don't ever respond, I assume they are no longer interested in meeting. I will not EVER randomly call a client on their cell phone. Or work phone. I do so out of respect for people's privacy. So if that means that once in a blue moon a communication issue comes up, then so be it. My clients know that they can trust me to NEVER cause them problems. That's why I don't randomly call if they aren't expecting it, and that's why I don't save clients numbers in my phone. God forbid I accidentally dial someone at a bad time, or my phone get lost etc. I keep NO call history in my work phone. I only call to discuss our upcoming initial date, or call when I arrive at an outcall to get someone's room number. Clients only call me when they arrive at my incall. In the grand scheme of things, would it hurt me to call someone if I haven't heard back after my emails? Most likely not. And I'm getting really tired of drama over it, so I'll probably start calling people now. But I still stand by everything I just said. Thanks for your opinion though.
Agreed. Except for the phone part. I guess we, as clients, aren't allowed to ask legit questions on the board if we run into some difficulty and should just be grateful they'll (usually) accept our money for sex.
Hi there....you are right I did not receive any emails from you. Please don't be upset. I just asked a general question and was very very careful not to "call you out". That's certainly not my style, nor my intent. Had you not responded, no one would have known who I was talking about. Please accept my apology if I've upset you in any way. I hope we have an opportunity to meet another time.
xo
Two other people apparently didn't get my emails that day either. So I guess you weren't the only one. And I do apologize. But to your original question to the board- ABSOLUTELY if someone has to cancel a trip they should let you know. Which I always do to the best of my ability. Your time is just as valuable as ours, and as much as ladies like to bitch, we would be nowhere without our clients. Occasionally there are misunderstandings, and I've certainly rubbed some people the wrong way over the past couple of years due to things I was dealing with, but I do try and communicate, and avoid confusion and wasting anyone's time. Still working on that italian temper lol. I try and think of it as a quirk, instead of a character flaw.
Next time I plan a trip down I'll just go ahead and send you my number instead!
Thanks so much....I look forward to it. Even if you didn't come all the way down, let me know if you visit Chas or Columbia.
Thanks again.
Next time I plan a trip down I'll just go ahead and send you my number instead!