Sometimes failed plans just turn out, well, let's just say different . . . And better!

Weekend plans were to be exciting, but those little changes in life happen, so it fell through.  Saturday I knew that the previous plans would not work, so I looked for plan "b."

Contacted one lady that I had seen before and she was delighted to come over!  We talked and played, talked and played and time just flew by.  Truly, we both had a great time and I felt drained forever.  Anyway, she is a special lady, we both understand our limitations, we share much, and we both respect one another.  That goes a long way in this world.

Today, a more mature and more frequently seen lady came over.  We talked for at least an hour just to catch up before anything began to happen.  She is intelligent, sees happenings in this world in much the same light, and we both opened up on those items that we could discuss freely.  We later played, and she rocked!  Again, there was more talk and understanding.

I understand that some prefer just the physical release, but this hobby is much more of an emotional time for others - and I know that I'm not alone in that.  We are people with real feelings, real issues, and real empathy.  

I've always found that by treating the ladies here with true respect and support works wonders in enriching the experience.  With the exception of one, that has always been the case.

Yes, they are working ladies, but they are - or at least the ones that I've chosen to see - real people.  Those know that I will not forsake their confidence.  

The lesson here . . . Always respect these ladies and support them when possible.  Those that are worth more than their weight in salt will reward you many times over.  They are people as well, real people!

Like you I'm not just looking to bust a nut and sen her on her way. Surprising how a little courtesy can go a long way. Like you I've experianced a lot of things outside the norm of a typical provider/client relationship. Like you always keep it to myself and protect the gal at all costs. The physical side of things is awesome but when a gal opens up to you in a real way, I mean real not pretend BS that most of the time ya get. Now that's special, and wouldn't trade those moments or memories for anything. I know someone is going to tell me I'm full of shit, and that's ok, I've been lucky enough like you to have boundrys pushed or even erased. Let the naysayers have their fun, us nice guys will just sit back quietly with our special memories and smile.

May I offer an "Amen!"

hot time with a girl and she really opens up to you then that is the best.  Twice in the years passed, I had went from a client to a boyfriend.  I really miss those interactions...Be open and chosen your ladies careful.  One 10 years younger and the other was 12 older.

Good advice, I'm married so not looking for a girl friend so to speak. Gotta admit there's been a couple ladies that had me wondering though. If ya can keep it in check that's some awesome stuff. All the fun stuff with no BS if both of ya are on the same page as far as expectations. it can be better than a "real" relationship just fun without the things that screw up real world couples, jealousy, money etc..  And no judgements so ya can both be honest with eachother. Just a couple people who genuinley like eachother having some NSA fun.  I refer to it as fake couple times.

END OF MESSAGE

I have seen her more than 25 times and each time we get together is just better than amazing. It's a sure sign of mutual attraction and true feelings when you never have to use any artificial lube and you both hate saying bye at the end of the visit. We are always finding new ways to turn each other on and it is never the same old same old. I hope that we can be friends for many years to come. (PUN INTENDED)