Many are charming, sexy, and can make you feel very special. It is easy to forget that you're not. Treat her with respect, but don't be intimidated by her. Relax and have a good time. If you are both so inclined, let her enjoy herself also, but don't worry about your "performance". Guarantee that there are better sexual partners than you out there, and also worse. Just be cool, and be yourself. PS: Don't ever discuss money when you are with her the first time. That should already be determined. Simply place the donation in a plain envelope and let her see you place it on a counter. If she should mention it (she shouldn't), I have always simply said: "I found it on the ground outside and thought maybe someone dropped it by accident". Oh yeah, one more thing, if she has stenciled on her body "This Side Up", pay attention, she probably means it.