I keep running around meeting them, yet the thrill is gone. Even if I happen to bump into a hottie, somehow I feel its the same " hop and bop " deal, while staring at her boob.
Rather than running around seeing women, maybe just become far more selective. When you like someone, see her repeatedly for longer dates. Then find other women like her. The happiest hobbyists I know have 3 ladies they know well and like a lot, not just because the physical is good but because they laugh a lot, have fun and feel young and worry free when with them. When they share stories they have done a lot more than mess up the sheets for an hour, they have fun tales to tell with a wide range of shared experiences. They rarely see new women unless someone really interesting catches their eye.
Remember that if you can have fun with someone, and feel like two can relate, the carnal part gets better. The passions also gets better as you both learn the tricks to each others bodies, which takes time and practice.
What you are talking about is an expensive mistress, not quite a girlfriend, not quite an escort, but still hard on the pocketbook.
These relationships always end up with the guy feeling he paid for something your boyfriend gets for free, and the hurt of "paying for a friend" get deeper as time ticks by. Sorry to be blunt honey, but I'm always honest.
It's not true about the carnal part either. When I meet the same person a second time, the bed stuff becomes worse, and it ends up a major psychotherapy session. Women are more attune to personal interaction, but all guys, deep down, are pigs.
Mmmm seing different providers no longer stimulate you, and the idea of keeping it to a few more meaningful mutual beneficial relationships is too expensive and not fair since the boyfriend gets it for free...
Maybe you should go back to civies and see what is it that you get for free. We will be here waiting for you to come back cheri ;b
On a more serious note, maybe it's simply some kind of sexual attention deficit disorder (SADD). This is a very comon issue among men. Check it out!
At least with "civies" I get a free day off... FROM SEX.
I thought you were making fun of me, but I looked up SADD. It's real. It means too much tugging (by yourself) and not enough tunnelling (into a woman).
That's not me. I used to like porn, but now I feel fed up and grossed out. Sometimes when I'm with a woman I also notice there's a lot of spit, sweat and sperm and these condoms sometimes feel sticky when I take them out, from some kind of vagina juice. Yuck.
Do any of you ladies feel sex is icky and messy and feel fed up with all the love juices spilling around?
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