If your post didn't appear, first place to look is 'view my posts' at the top of the page. There you will find the reason for denial, or if it simply hasn't been approved yet (sometimes we go out for a pizza or to get laid or something). General rules of the board can be found here:
http://tinyurl.com/MessageBoardPolicy

Ladies - if your ad didn't make it to the board, you might want to review the ad posting rules:
http://tinyurl.com/AdPosting

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