ask for the name n work number to verify they are who say they are, then have a driver take you n notify when you arrive n where u are, so the guy knows that some one is aware of where you are. and waitin for you, then check thier real name and work n id, I have alot guys email from work email professional ones i find that pretty reasuring, . then theres the provider buss then some other site , datecheck then preferred411, and then here too can be also rea suring the whitlist. hope this helps give xtra ideas, on refernces aside from services, if they gave you reference on a service thT doesnt GIVE REFERENCES THEN THATS JUST ODD AS THEY SHOULD PROBLY KNOW AHEAD TIME IF ITS OK TO USE AS REFERENCE INSTEAD MAKN YOU WASTE TIME N HAVIN TO CALL TO DISCOVER ITS NOT USED AS A REFERENCE, THAT KINDA RUDE, I THINK MAYBE THAT ALREADY BE LIKE A WARNING SIGN THE PERSON IS INCONSIDERATE OF YOU N YOUR EFFORTS N TIME TO HAVE YOU RUNNIN AROUND MAKN CALLS TO PLACES FOR NO GOD DAM REASON, UM, YOU PROBLY DONT NEED THAT CLIENT ANY HOW, JUST THE FACT HE HAD YOU DOIN ALL KINDS LEG WOTJK, HE SHOULDA CHECKED IF ITS A GOOD REFERENCE BEVFORE, I MEAN , I THINK THERES ONE CALLED DANGEROUS CLIENT REPORTS CHECK MY WEB PAGE I HAVE LINKS TO ALLT HE REFERNCE C HECKN SITES, I JUST HATE THAT PART OF IT, N BEEN USIN THE WORK N NAME REFERENCE, THINGS MAINLY, I HATE THE REFERENCE CHECKN, PART SO ANNOYING, i HAVE A NE COMPUTER DESK THOUGH JUST GOTTA MOVE PC NOW, SO MAYBE i WONT BE AS ANNOYED ANY MORE THE NEW ONE IS SUPER ROOMY AND ERGONOMICALLY CORRECT FOR A RECOVERING CONNECTIVE TISSUE ADHESIONS IN MY TRAPS THAT WERE GIVN ME MAJOTR ISSUES, { SIT UPOS WITH WEIGHTS NOT USIN MOVIN COMPANIES} YES BAD IDEAS! BUT I GOT LINKS TO EVERY POSSIBOLE SITE TO USE AS REFERENC ASIDE FROM CHECKN BY CALLN, IF U LOOK AT MY SITE,