So I am new to the hobby.
Overall, this aint easy!

I'm exhausted searching numerous sites, backpage, ter, escort phone search sites...etc.

I've been researching women for a year now and only taken the plunge 2 times and both were good experiences, but I feel I was lucky...no pun intended.

Needless to say, I am very selective and cautious.

But this is what I've learned thus far:

Half of the ads on BP are fake.
The real pics, I'd say 25% are old.
So, we are left with 25% legit ads.

Of these 25%, I'd say 10% are my type.
I like BBWs, blondes, older women or a combo.

Now, out of the very few that I am interested in, they either have no reviews on ter or are asking for 300 plus. And I don't have references, at least not in the past year.

It seems to be almost impossible to meet a classy, sexy, nice woman for 150-200 for 30 min-60 min.

This weekend I did find 2 women that fit my criteria, but no return phone calls.

Out of a thousand women on Backpage, which I know sucks but its a starting point for me, only a small percentage are real that I may have a chance with.

Frustrated...sexually and mentally!
Is there an easier way?

We have exactly what you are looking for and all pictures are real and recent. We have open enrollment once a year for new clients starting April 1st. If you can get some references by then we could help you. Try joining P-411 or Date-Check

Jill

Go to the review section and use the filters to find exactly what you want.

You'll get a bunch of profiles with reviews and stats.

I've done it a few times when I traveled to other cities, and found some real great gals.

You will need to join a screening service to get beyond the gals' screening.

Good feedback.
What do you suggest? datecheck? P411?

Thanks

I have Date Check, but have been told by a provider I wanted to see that anyone can get Date Check. You need references to go with it.

There are plenty of us with real and recent pics, my girls and I update our pics every three to four months. But we're all younger and thinner than what you're looking for. My first suggestion would be to follow Jill's advice, and get a membership with date check or preferred 411. Step two, forget about backpage. While there are legit providers there, the odds are against you. Especially if you're not experienced at screening out the fakes and scams. Use TER, and Date check, or Preferred 411, to find someone that matches your preferences.

Your main obstacle is going to be getting your foot in the door with a reputable provider without any references. You're going to need to find someone willing to invest the time and effort into screening you in other ways, and be willing to provide them with sufficient personal info to do so.

Once you start getting providers to verify you with date check or preferred 411, things will get much easier for you.

Thanks Nyx and Jim.
Good feedback.

Hey Baby!!     Join p411 and then call me!!!   I am just what you need!!
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Love, Penny Nympho

I believe they are having an open enrollment for new clients in April. Which I remember seeing in a recent post, cause currently they are not accepting new clients. I haven't had the opportunity to use this service yet since I'm not up in Beantown much these days. But from what seen on their website and from TER reviews she has many lovely ladies and their prices are reasonable. Stay away from BP and other such garbage - not worth the risk.
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