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growing amounts of angry threats
Ellarosexo 1098 reads
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Hey everyone, what is going on with the growing amount of anger & threats I'm getting from inquiring "gentleman"
for simply telling them 'NO"  

I've never in my days in this industry have encountered so many angry guys, we all provide, want, and are comfortable with different things, why when declining some things I don't feel comfortable doing am I met with vulgar insults and literal threats of violence and bad reviews, what ever happened to just moving on to the next that will provide what your looking for ???

am I the only one noticing this ???

This is appalling to hear. I am sad to know you have to deal with this. Threats are never an OK response for a simple NO on an inquiry. You can fight and bring down bad reviews if it was made falsely.

Additionally

You can help your fellow providers out by listing their contact info in some blacklist sites/apps. Sadly the world is becoming a more dangerous place.

Throrough screening and seeing reputable clients is becoming more important now than ever. Stay safe and bless you for bringing this to light.

Thanks for your reply!

May I ask for a list of these sites and apps?  

I would love to continue to be a part of this community and contribute to help my fellow providers as well as have these outlets to protect myself and keep up with the knowledge necessary to continue  on in the safest manor.

Ella

Of course there is always and have always been disrespectful  or rude trolls, but it is daily. The impatience if I do not respond  within minutes for last minute requests that are not real requests as far as I am concerned,  because they cannot form a sentence or speak like a gentleman and haven't  submitted  screening, so this is  blatant disregard for my rules, policies, process ect
. Sending tons of questions marks, name calling, threats, cursing. It is out of control.

THIS !!!!!!!!!!!!OMG THIS!!!!

Its barley even noon and I've had one guy call me all kinds of names because I refused him after saying explicit things on the phone ( I wish I could upload pics here ) I had another threat of a bad review because he wanted to negotiate my rates.  
If you guys ( clients ) are reading this and wondering why we are all screening and asking for deposits now, this is why.

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