Especially if you see them often.  but it can be a friendship too.

Into a warm swirling rapid of passion and lust and confusion and desire...and it drags you downstream faster than you can react and you both put on the emergency brake but it fails and just makes you need each other that much more, and so you slam it into reverse but it lurches forward anyway despite all reason, until you are left soaked and fragile and exhausted and happier than you ever imagined, but needing more- like shakey teenage addicts.  And it gets to the point where lives will change, and others will be affected, and so one must stop it, no matter how badly we want it to continue...

Oh wow- this isnt personal is it? Just guessing of course- lol- but imo falling can happen anywhere/anytime and even to the best of us, sometimes even the best business pro can be caught offguard, i would guess ?

We spend time with many interesting men and some clients we have been intimate with often over the course of yrs, we like them as ppl may even be attracted to them...shit happens.

I myself took a client relationship of 4yrs off the clock and he's now my SO for the last yr.  So yes it does happen.

Mostly I try to keep things seperate, can't always do that though.

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So There Are...

There are clients I find attractive for different reasons, sometimes its physical other times its mental. But I have to remember the reality of where we are. This is a hobby and I am your fantasy. Variety is the spice of life, so if you had me everyday all day it will be no fun being your escape from reality. Limits are meant to be pushed but some boundaries should never be crossed.

What happens in Hobbyville stays in Hobbyville, or does it?

It would have to be a strong guy with very low ego needs to handle it.  I also think that a single provider with a single gent might make a go of it easier.  It definitely could help if you both like to swing.  On the other hand a married provider might do better with a married hobbyist.  Then both might be more mindful of their mutual, potentially conflictual situation.

Love is love and although it sounds idealistic, if you find a good one, then maybe you mutually go for it.  The road will not be without potholes and speedbumps for sure, although that is true of the human condition in general.

IMHO: If its just for a FLING, don't take a SWING.

Cheers, and go have fun out there whatever you do  Kathi xoxox