Feel for you dude!!

What is up with these types of providers!! The reason I stick with a select few from local agencies. Independents seem to flake more easily due to the 'lack' of the middle man and the consequences!
Sure all who was interested appreciates the heads up!

Here we go with another long winded 50 posts on this thread of Raynah and by Raynah.
To be honest it's getting old.
I really wanted to see her, her reviews are mostly outstanding, that's when she show's up.
Now we're going to get some rant as to this appointment and to why she didn't or couldn't show up.
It's another case of NCNS by her.
My question is this plain and simple if we did that to her we're on the don't answer the phone list and even blacklisted. My suggestion is get your you know what together and treat the client as you want to be treated sweetheart!! No more excuses, PLEASE!!!!

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Same story here, dont confirm 15 minutes prior to if you cant make it, and dont even bother calling so I can make other plans.

...and you have given us your side now.

I hope this thread doesn't turn into another "trash Raynah" session.

I urge everyone not to pass judgement on her or anyone until both sides have weighed in.

I know Raynah very well and she is a wonderful lady who I would not hesitate seeing again and again.

I will say there are times when a lady picks up a bad vibe from a guy during the screening process and decides not to go through with the date - some times at the last minute.

I'm sorry you got stood up - we've all been there and it does suck.

You call a complete stranger all kinds of names without even knowing why what happened happened.  If it makes you feel better, my father died this past weekend. I was supposed to call you from the side of his deathbed and cancel? You are the piece of shit sir. Not me. Clearly, I missed the correct date again. And whats up with the same people jumping on my ass every 5 minutes? GET A LIFE. You don't care for me? GREAT. There are many more than you that do. Find someone else to focus your menial mind on. What sort of a man sits and talks the same shit over and over again? An idiot. I have no time for it. Sadly, its all you seem to do. I am happy to admit when I am wrong- but these posts are reaching the point of stupidity.

Guys - I'm not trying to curry favor with Raynah - I've never seen her, and I have no idea what kind of person she is.

But holy shit - you need to cut her a break.

It's a HUGE pain in the ass to get stood up - I feel for you Zig. You set aside your job, your wife, your kids, etc. You spend time setting up your alibi, etc. It's a major hassle. So, to do all that, for nothing, that stinks.

But, you definitely need to cut Raynah a break.

In this hobby, there are TONS of things that might come up that get in the way. E.g., a spouse calls unexpectedly. Your kids not feeling great. A crisis pops up at work. The clerk at the hotel looks at you suspsiciously. There's LE walking around the lobby. The place just doesn't feel right. You're not feeling well. Your car breaks down. Etc.

Sure - it'd be great if she called you, or sent some kind of message. But there are dozens of reasons why that's not always possible. I'm sure there are plenty of things that might cause you to no-show/no-call. And Raynah wouldn't be calling you a piece of shit if that happened.

That's the breaks in the hobby. We often forget, but this is a privilege, not a right. Just because you've got a couple hundred bucks in your wallet - that doesn't mean Raynah owes you something. We should be thankful that she, and other women like her, give us a shot every now and then.

I'm definitely sympathetic, Zig, but lighten up on Raynah. Judging from her reviews, she's made a LOT of guys VERY HAPPY. I think she deserves a break here. Even if she's done this before - you don't know her situation. Maybe she's got a kid or two at home, and a flaky baby sitter. Maybe she's got a car that isn't running great. Maybe she's got another job that's unpredictable. Maybe she's got a friend in need.

A little understanding and patience goes a long way.

Good luck on your next excursion - hope that works out better for you.

And Raynah - whatever happened - I hope everything works out for you.

Thanks for the post Ziggy. That's what this board is for ( isn't it?)
Nice pic Raynah, also what this board is for (isn't it?)
Nice Ass, Raynah,(isn't it?) it's only natural many would want to be "up" it - one way or the other.
Both incongruent and incongruousare adjectives  - aren't they?

And, of course, my sincere condolences extended to Raynah for her recent loss.