Nothing know for certain but I'm treating (seeing a Dr.) something down below after spending time with a well know local provider. I'm anticipating the "it's not me its you". Well to this point I've never had anything. I'm concerned not only about myself and wha ta worst case scenario will do to my life but I'm worried for other gents and for this woman. No one said anything to me before hand and as niave as this sounds, I thought that local providers were pretty much a safe bet.

How do other providers and hobbyist handle a situation like this? Oh if it turns out to be a big scare I will repost.

Any helpful thoughts would be appreciated.

Yes, and we were so active that the Dr and I are hoping for friction burn that may have gotten infected.

... you think a local provider would be safer than a visiting one?  And are you waiting to see if you got it from her or what? You probably should've told her what you came down with as soon as you found out .... I mean since you're already treating it and you haven't told her yet  it kind of increases the chances she might think you've given her something vs the other way around.

When there is a legitimate scare typically adults speak to one another like adults.

Depending on the reporting requirements, you might be required to give up her name to your health provider and/or health clinic. I know with some stds they will ask her to come down to the clinic to get tested.

Now you can get a bump on your skin near your penis (I am not talking about the penis). That could be an ingrown hair. The best way to deal with that is to use iodine. You can pick up that from your local drug store.

Good thing you didn't ruin someone's business by prematurely slandering her.

In the future speak to her or any other provider you have concerns with.

Can I ask you, does this provider work for a service or is this provider independent ?

ooo, hopefully it wasn't a gal I saw over the weekend.  Its to bad this "hobby "wasn't more transparent.  If you played it safe odds are in your favor. Let us know the outcome.  Good luck.

Dr says 99.9 % definitely not an STD, very serious rug with a touch infection.  I won't go into the details that I got.

Thank you for your responses. I didn't mean to come off as offensive, I was looking for a way to open up the discussion if one needed to be had. There are various opinions and I thank you all for them.

I'm glad because this is a great girl (not that any of you are not great, your wonderful) and I was having a hard time believing that the character of this person would allow something like that.

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bein in this line work u must take into consideration possibilities that could occure.    alot of people are una ware that clamydia can be carried in a man for years n hel never hav signs. also clamydia is carried in peoples throughts na great deal the time makn oral sex risky. my trick? i do not swallow any saliva at any piont during a gufe. i may xcuse myself n run in bathroom n actually spit the pool of salaiva i been holdn in my mouth! but hey its kinda neurotic but i hav never gotten any sore throats so far. i would suggest not swalling your saiva during or after oral with your parytners unless its like a monogamous relationship or , u r willn to take those risks.  i wouldnt stress i am sure they took into consideration the possibility of that hapoening beofre they did bare back with you. i mean if u do that u know u r riskn health but hey u weigh out your pros n cons n whats more im portant tom u. i am sure shes not gonna be shocked n wikl have anew grown respect gfor nyou seeing how u care about her health by letting her know immediatly before she gives it to a marriedguy n his innocent virgin wife gets it, sometimes people that dont deserve an std may be involvesd- like some guys unsuspecting wife that really suck n throw hiom under bus i d suggest u dont delay n notify her immediately. before ntheres a bunch a house wifes wondrin whats the hell haooend.