sees guys over a certain age, does it really mean that she's accepted that the younger ones wouldn't be interested anyway?

I've noticed during my research that a lot of the low volume, age restriction types are probably doing it by necessity instead of choice.  Am I wrong in that?  Are there other reasons?

I sense someone wanting to start a long thread again....

I can only speak for myself but you are VERY wrong. A lot of low volume ladies I know are that way because they have other things to do outside work. They have children, other jobs, and a zillion other things to do besides being high volume. Not everyone wants to work 12 hour days... do you want to work constantly in whatever your career is? This job can be physically, mentally and emotionally exhausting. A word on younger men... as someone who is in their early 20's... we ALL know that men mature slower than women and many of the younger guys simply aren't mature enough or financially secure to hobby. My headaches in this business have all been due to younger guys and their immaturity.

"Low volume" could also mean "don't tell me I'm over priced, I don't want to hear it"

One provider actually started calling herself "under the radar" (on anoTher BoarD) after she was banned from TER.  Can't name her since she is still/now "de-listed".  

There is no problem finding plenty of quality providers.  Just read the reviews!  Don't be concerned about reasons for age-restriction.  Again, so many fish in the sea...move on and have fun with someone that meets your needs.

-ToT

i would have to believe some of the ladies here do have a life and also need time to take care of themselves.

Low volume does not mean:

"Can't get the business"

OR

"I am too expensive, don't tell others"

It means I am not going to burn myself out with too many dicks in my pussy, ass and/or mouth!

It means I have other things to do in life besides fucking round the clock.

It means I am going to enjoy encounters as much as the man even though he is going to have to pay for it.

Heck, I even know ladies in the business who would fuck you well off the clock if she likes you and wouldn't see anyone else that day or that week! Doesn't mean they are not attractive or sex isn't off the charts with them or for them!

So, don't fall prey to the stereotypes. There are sinfully sexy women out there who you wish would fuck more but won't because they don't care to!

low volume providers have always been of great interest ... I would NEVER hesitate to see any one of them if I liked what I saw and read,from reputable reviewers... always reputable reviewers

Add on that "low-volume" also means less chance of being noticed by nosy neighbors, hotel employees, and LE, enjoying what you do and the money is pretty darn good as well, being in control of their own business and deciding to see a limited  clientele who are often regulars.

Finally, it's great marketing. If you are low volume, have quality reviews, and take fewer clients you become more desirable based on the supply/demand concept.

I've enjoyed most often "low-volume" providers because they are generally interested and less likely to be clock watchers.

As for the barned provider who, I guess is now on another doggone board alltogther, it wasn't that long ago that I spent an awesome evening with her. She's pricu, but when I left I didn't regret a penny of her fee.

is because of posts like yours...

Bravo!  Well said Bostonguy

There are ladies who enjoy being full time high volume providers, there are others who do have other obligations in life as well as have desire to enjoy the encounters and bring they A game on at every occasion.

What did they say about ASS-U-ME-ng?

xoxo

Lina

Well said KK!! I'd even drink to that (and I don't drink!)
P.S. Geez you are an eloquent little bastard! (lol)

Thanks!

...And a legitimate representation of how a provider chooses to operate for others.

Some clients are genuinely interested in providers who consciously limit their availability.
Some providers are aware that this is desirable and tout it in advertisements specifically to appeal to them.

Sometimes its true, sometimes its not.

Age restrictions are across the board; many attractive, young providers in fact have them - and simply screen out clients who are younger or older than their preferences.

There will always be providers whose marketing cornerstones are their personality and the experience which they wish to provide...
...And fast, hot things who put the stats, the photo and the contact information in the advertisement and let it all take care of itself.

Don't think too hard about it - if a provider is active, visible, stable and doesn't appear to rock the boat too much in her approach (is consistent)...then chances are she's getting exactly what she's determined that she needs.

I would say i am low volume, others would say I am not.
Its your outlook I guess that decides this.
I see who I want to see, make a good living and don't push myself.
I have teens and they are my focus, NOT playin with clients, that pays my bills.
I enjoy time with my friends, I screen for personality as well as safety. Just having references and the right donation won't cut it.

Now the age thing...Yes I do have a rule about age. I see no one under 40 and no one over 60ish...depends on the man. I prefer to see men in the age of who I would date. Guys in their  late 40s and their 50s. I play the game my way.
I find by doing things the way I want to, I am not usually disappointed and it's not all about the money.
This is a very intimate business and I plan to enjoy myself. I will turn down 20 plus calls a week every week on a regular basis, and it's all good with me. I won't see anyone who doesn't intrigue me in some way.
This business is what you make of it. I plan on having a good time...and it turns out...I DO!

Just as TER provides criteria for men to select the type of ladies they would like to meet, this is also a forum that allows ladies the freedom and options to attract and meet the types of men they prefer to have as clients.

I have an age restriction, and have for years because I simply don't like seeing younger men.   I enjoy gentlemen my own age, and slightly older is actually ideal.  I have found older men sexier since I was a very young lady. I love salt and pepper hair, especially gray at the temples and on the chest.  I enjoy a man who has experienced the full spectrum of life.  Older men are more confident, they have varied career experiences, they are often well traveled and cultured and wonderful teachers and lovers. Most have excelled in life and have done everything "the right way." (Church on Sunday, Little League Coach, company man..)  These men (40+) often decide that it's now time for them to venture out and have some fun, but do not want to risk all that they have worked for by having a typical affair.  Instead they seek companionship of a lady like myself, or my female peers (mature providers) who can tend to their every need; physical and otherwise.   Understand that with a mature man the needs are usually very different than that of a younger man.  With younger men it's about how many times they can get off.  With older gentlemen the focus is on the sensual aspect of pleasure and making it last.  Not to say that they can't achieve satisfaction multiple times, but to be blunt the quality of the sex is mind blowing compared to being with a jack rabbit youngster.  Often the climax results in a tantric experience.  Maybe the ladies who see young guys like rough and tumble play, but for mature lovers the mutual sensual interaction can be toe curling.  It's about the combination of physical and mental satisfaction, which leads to true pleasure. (If you're under 40 you won't get it!)

In addition to my personal preference, I must again stress that the only real issues I have come across over the years has been with young guys.  They have been intrusive to my personal life, stalkers, and campers.  I have never had this problem with mature gentlemen.  We have a great time-very often extended.   We may even say hello via phone or email in between meetings, BUT we respect one another’s personal boundaries. (Example: I just had a PITA 28 year old stalking me by email and phone over the weekend, and his style and words prove my point perfectly) How often do you hear of a mature professional man harming ladies?

If a lady is just seeing guys for an hour or half hour and out the door they go, then perhaps it doesn't matter. This is not the type of service I provide.  Before stereotyping providers with preferences you should think a little deeper.

Bottom Line is I’m into treating gentlemen with respect and I actually care about more than just the envelope.  There are many lonely and physically unsatisfied people (sexually and otherwise) in this world, and some need more TLC than others.  Reality is there are many variables in an individual's personal life.  Providers also have various agendas. For me it's experiencing intimacy with intelligent sensual mature gentlemen with benefits.  Sure, all the typical "interactions" occur, but there is so much more about providing a true courtesan experience.  The conversation, the tender touches, hugs, kisses, mutual satisfaction, teasing, massage, sometimes sipping wine, feeding each other strawberries, soaking in the hot tub-all to soft music and candlelight.  This is not an experience I care to share with a younger man, nor could I provide this in a one hour time frame.  I give a lot of myself during these sessions in time and energy.  The benefits are that I am not only rewarded by spending time with amazing gentlemen, but I learn so much about people and the world from them.  And of course the financial assistance is appreciated, but that being said I have always shared my good fortune with others.  Be it philanthropy, bettering myself from the inside out, or giving the best I can to others so that they could become better human beings.  I never have, and never will lose sight of the fact that I am so lucky to have met wonderful gentlemen, and I have been so blessed over the years. I am a firm believer in what goes around comes around in life, therefore it is important to treat others as you would like to be treated.  This belief reamins with me throughout all areas of my life.

On the subject of low volume.  I believe this has become bullshit marketing quite frankly.  First it was GFE years back, now everyone is low volume.  I tune in sporadically, but am not stupid.  Day after day Incalls are advertised and traveling ladies come in.  I doubt very much if only one man is seen per location per day (as I do), and I will admit that when I travel I do not see only one gent a day.  I could not afford the trip unless I saw a higher volume of clients.  Reality check-do the math.  I am not interested in seeing the type of guy who would place himself in the position of being where several other gentlemen may have ‘been’ in a given day.  I don’t take risks and don’t want client friends who take risks.  This is for self respect and privacy.  While this philosophy works for me, I cannot speak to the comfort zone of others.  We all need to wake up and look at ourselves in the mirror.  

"I've noticed during my research that a lot of the low volume, age restriction types are probably doing it by necessity instead of choice."

This statement doesn’t resonate with me.  The only necessity, as one poster pointed out is that some of us "mature, low volume, age restricted types" have very real and full lives.  Personally, I am a full time student and currently work a real job part time.  I've always had a full time job during my years as a provider.  What could be better?  I have full benefits; I maintain a career and remain grounded to society, and get to have a wild and awesome time with some of the smartest, sexiest and financially comfortable gentlemen in New England and points beyond.  It's a mutually beneficial relationship that causes no harm.   I'm here when they would like to see me, but otherwise I stay out of their lives.  I have been able to travel with some, and have been honored to befriend many-even if it's just in the confines of our special time together.  These relationships have enriched my life in every possible way and I feel so honored and fortunate to have met so many wonderful people (even a few ladies/providers) along the way.

My long is detailed response is not just about me; it’s understanding that not all of us that participate in this hobby (men or women) are cold hardened people.  I believe people should be educated and neither hobbyist nor provider should be stereotyped.  However, a spade is a spade and should be called as such.  There are MANY nice ladies that are kind and good people who are active in their communities and great Moms. Just because some have chosen a different path to suit their personal needs I don’t place myself above them as we are all equal in the end.  All said and done, it is what it is.

Personally, I would rather have one piece of Belgium Chocolate once in the while than a bag of M&M’s.  I’d rather sip a small amount of fine wine or champagne on occasion than chug a large bottle of cheap wine.  I would prefer to save my pennies and go to a fine dining restaurant once every few weeks instead of eating at the Olive Garden or Applebee’s every week.  And most of all, I would prefer to be in the company of a sensual romantic man who is passionate about life and feeds my mind, body and soul (and oh yes, my education fund!) instead of several youngsters that leave me feeling emotionally empty and used up.  But that’s just me……

Best wishes to all,

Kate
A mature and confident provider who speaks from the heart.

Thank you.  You put that perfectly.  I consider myself to be "low-volume" and advertise myself as such.

I have a life outside of "this," I also work basically a 9-5 "professional" job, I have family, a house, 2 dogs.  And sometimes I like to just stay at home, read a book and do nothing.  While I enjoy the company of men, I would prefer to keep from a train of men at my door.  It's not my personal style.  Yes, sometimes this can be emotionally and physically tollying and thank you to "Suuure" for saying so.  

We are not robots and some of us prefer to choose our clientele wisely, so we too can enjoy our time and take our time w/our chosen gentlemen friends.

As for age, well, boys are not men and tend to cause too much drama, have to borrow money from their parents, want you to visit them at an uncomfortable location of their college dorm rooms, tend to become "stalkerish," etc.  Not that I am dead set against NOT seeing someone under the age of 30.  If they are indeed mature, respectful and wiser beyond the "number," I do make an exception.  However, I also like to have an intellectually stimulating date with someone; someone that has experienced life.

Thanks for curing me of my Insomnia .
How many times do we have to hear about this repetitive shit of yours

I thought Kates post was great and informative.

I don't always agree with Kate but-
why do people get on the internet and say things they'd never say to someone's face without provocation?

lmfao

*runs away*

Why? Being an e-thug doesn't take any balls, especially when hiding behind a handle AND an alias. You can say whatever you want on the Internet and, as we all know, if you saw it on the Internet it must be true!

Yeah, why do they (any of us) get on the Internet and post at all? LOL

She rocks my world and doesn't try to change things at home.  My relationship with her is so good I only wish I could see her more.

I am low volume provider by choice.  I enjoy seeing a limited number of clients during the hours that I am available. I need a few hours for myself after I am done with a session.  It also helps that I do not live a lavish lifestyle.  
xoxo
Katie