These are some things I think about when defining who are regulars and what they mean to me:  

1) It is hard to think of a regular as a client it is more like a really good friends with benefits.

2) You get excited and giddy when they email or call.

3) The sessions you have just build and build in intensity and you feel a comfort ability that you feel with no one else.

4) Regulars make you feel worth it.

5) Regulars forge a tight bond and strong discreet secret friendship that only you and they know exists.

6) A regular makes you feel like you have an ally in the business.

7) He is fun and it is normally way more than just the obvious he seeks like intellectual stimulation, sharing of life stories, champagne, and massages.

8) A regular is reliable.

9) Regular friends are a treasure.

10) People who want to be regular but cannot afford it can get deals if they truly want to be frequent.

11) Every time you two are together you seem to make your time spent better and better.

12) It is deep and caring as well as intensely passionate!

13) A regular is someone I make memories of passion, humor and triumphs that I will take with me in memory long after I have turned the page and left the business.

Yes... we can be friends and be intimate on a regular basis without blurring any lines. Too many are scared of that happening so they see people once.

You have not lived or indulged until you really have built that solid regular client/provider friendship. Talk about fireworks...regular meetings can get so intense they may have to call the Fire Dept. to dry out the room.

Three cheers to all the men who wish to enjoy the hobby to is fullest by creating some regular friendships....because remember boys all the rest is surface boinking.


-- Modified on 9/3/2008 2:16:32 PM