There are very few posting rules at TER. One is do not cause trouble for trouble's sake. In my judgement, it would be irresponsible to let such a post go through if the poster did not attempt to resolve the matter with the lady first. As they say, "You can't unring a bell." Bottom line regarding Loarthan's thread...he chose not to share the lady's identity. Perhaps he intends to give her another chance and he didn't wish to burn the bridge. I don't know his motive and I don't care. He or anyone here doesn't deserve to be attacked.

I don't intend to post again on this subject. Anyone who feels the need to have the last word may do so.

thirsty